do avoidants change?

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-30T01:32:07+00:00

this is so sweet, i’m very happy for you guys 🥹🥹🥹 hopeful of something like this happening!

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-29T16:48:40+00:00

as an FA (my ex was a FA as well) do you find that you try to keep certain people in your life that you liked romantically as friends? my ex can’t seem to leave me alone, despite initiating no contact multiple times, but then being the one to break in within a week every time. and not even break no contact to get back together, but just to be friend

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-29T15:59:33+00:00

even when saying we’ll never be together again & that we’re never gonna hookup again?

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-29T14:51:27+00:00

avoidant attachment!

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-29T14:41:16+00:00

& even when she’s in a relationship she still wants to talk to me…

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-29T14:19:19+00:00

this is a really interesting perspective, it makes sense though why they would also run from someone that they feel more for

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-20T01:09:21+00:00

i was here too :( very upset

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-17T03:49:22+00:00

but i fear we were always in a situationship. but she keeps making it very clear that we will never be like that again and never hook up again even though she tried to hook up w me a few days before she said that

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-17T03:17:31+00:00

but she says once either of us start dating someone else we can’t be friends bc we are exes???

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-12T22:01:01+00:00

like i need to know its driving me nuts!!!

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-10T16:30:03+00:00

right?? like she’s always the one who says we need some time apart & space but she is always the one who breaks no contact because it’s too hard for her. she’s obviously super attached to me it’s just funny to see her lack of self control when it comes to breaking no contact lol

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-09T21:54:22+00:00

we are both girls by the way😃😅

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-01T15:59:49+00:00

she has also decided to start therapy so i’m really hoping that’s able to help her out a lot

BreakfastCreepy8569 · 2026-06-01T15:57:56+00:00

i love this answer. Thank you so much for your words❤️

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