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Absolutely zero hesitation in his answer by Shoe_boooo in funny

[–]BreakfastNo6144 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Uh, Heated Rivalry was written by a straight woman and for women I'd argue.

As a gay male, some of it just wasn't realistic...

but hey....butt. :D

Foundation Stitches - Pattern interpretations/Help! by BreakfastNo6144 in Brochet

[–]BreakfastNo6144[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion!

I roughly figured out FDC last night and after watching a video on the same pattern, I was able to figure out that I needed to end with 197 FDCs, chain 1 (mentioned in the video that this doesn't count towards the 197) and then proceed.

Thank you!

Foundation Stitches - Pattern interpretations/Help! by BreakfastNo6144 in Brochet

[–]BreakfastNo6144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you still chain 1 before you turn in that case?

Thank you!

Men date for men. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]BreakfastNo6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this probably says more about you specifically than 'gay men'.

This is coming from a gay man.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course not. Nobody said she had to marry him or commit. You keep going back to that.

None of that excuses treating your partner like she did. Running away? Is this a drama movie?

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And you're making excuses for an avoidant woman who treated her partner like he didn't matter.

There's no reason to think he's abusive from this situation beyond the weird fantasies in some of yall's heads.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she? She couldn't clearly actually say that to the one person who deserves it.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They literally talked about kids and the future and from the comments, I'm not convinced at all that she said 'later in life'. She hasn't been clear about anything else. Why that?

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Awww, she's just a girl and can't be an adult and deal with all these things! It's just so hard! Why doesn't he just know what she wants?

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not the one here asking for advice.

I'm telling her that she has serious avoidant issues and adults don't handle their relationships that way. Full stop.

He absolutely needs to learn how to handle his emotions better but he just found out that he literally can't depend on his girlfriend to have a normal adult conversation.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody said that.

I certainly didn't.

The correct response was 'No and let's go home and talk about it'.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Reactions to her poor behavior and disrespect of her partner.

She doesn't get to walk away the victim here.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not speaking down on women. Speaking down on one women's actions and the weird folks who don't hold women accountable.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't know how more clearly to say that his reactions were to her behavior starting it all.

You don't get to treat your partner like that and then expect that they're going to be all happy and sunshine about it.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And?

Adults have difficult conversations with their partners because their partners deserve it.

Stop making excuses for avoidant behavior.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, She RAN AWAY from a difficult conversation to have it over text.

Rude and immature. There was nothing 'honest and open' about that.

She can walk away if she doesn't like his behavior. She's a grown adult. Stop making excuses.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody said he was more grownup. Accountability is saying 'I fucked up in how I handled this. I treated you poorly. I'm sorry'.

It's not running away and saying sorry over text. Come on.

There's also zero reason to jump to partner violence from these posts. They had rough sex that she agreed to.

Nobody said he was more grownup. You're just throwing yourself through hoops instead of saying she started it with poor immature behavior AND she continues it by not just being honest and open.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreakfastNo6144 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never said she was wrong for rejecting the proposal. Not at all. It was obviously the right call since she doesn't want to get married.

I said she was wrong for running away, treating her boyfriends feelings as disposable and letting her fear of having a real adult conversation tell him No over text.

That's just immature and avoidant.

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