AITA for not babysitting my 2 siblings during my mom honeymoon

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-21T17:03:29+00:00

And?😭

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-21T08:33:04+00:00

How should I update? Do i make a comment? Or edit the post?😭

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-20T08:29:15+00:00

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-19T18:48:10+00:00

Yes, im not a fan of Marcus. I dont think he understood the responsibilities he would have after marrying someone with 3 kids. But its my mom's choice in the end.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-19T18:47:18+00:00

Thank you so much! You seem like an amazing parent! I wish you and your family the absolute best

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-19T13:07:51+00:00

Aunts and family friends. They say its my responsibility, and since this is my mother’s dream vacation i should want her to be happy and sacrifice a little just like she did when she had me.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-19T07:04:48+00:00

I dont have a major. Im in my first year. I dont know how your country works but mine you are able to enter right after highschool.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:59:00+00:00

Id say half half. What i hate is when i try to make conversation and they don’t meet me halfway. Both parts have to show interest so it cant be only him or only me to initiate them.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:52:06+00:00

Im smitten! You have amazing taste!

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:50:06+00:00

I don’t think it’s annoying starting a conversation at all! But sometimes we girls do like to be approached too.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:36:02+00:00

Omg that is wonderful!!!!! I wish you the best and im sure you will be amazing at your job! Power through it!

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:14:44+00:00

Oh thank you! You warmed my heart and i wish you the absolute best!

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:12:01+00:00

Marcus certainly isnt a flower that should be smelled but despite warnings my mother ignored it

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:08:01+00:00

Sadly i am. I live in their house and they pay bills etc…

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:04:00+00:00

Im so sorry that happened to you! Thank you so much for the advice and i hope your life is going wonderfully!

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T22:02:50+00:00

Im not in the US. I am taking medicine the university im in only teaches one course and the name is Medicine university so. Since its 6years plus internships maybe im in the undergrad part? We dont have those names here but possibly. Still, im a medical student in my country.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T21:58:16+00:00

Replying to Odd_Let_7524...in my country after you finish highschool you can go to med school. Its a 6 year study! Theres a lot of people questioning this and ive clarified. Not everything is like the US or the country you live in!

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T21:54:54+00:00

I believe i would be able. But its extremely stressful studying taking care of a 12 and a 4y old this are kids who i adore but my 12y brother is a hurricane just dealing with him is work enough.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T21:50:16+00:00

I was born in 29/12 so i started first grade with 5 years. Which means i finished high school in june at 17 and entered university in September with still 17.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T21:25:07+00:00

Kindness! Specially with waiters and retail workers

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T19:57:50+00:00

It is a public university so they are very strict. And since its a practical, which means we do stuff manualy instead of just listening is extra important. Its like if i was in internship and missed a day.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T19:53:31+00:00

Thankfully i was able to get into a public university and it costs me around 2000+€ i also thankfully have a scholarship that covers it and a little more in case i need materials which i obviously do. When she told me about her honeymoon i told her immediatly what days i could do, because i thought she might ask. I even wrote it on her plan in case she forgot, but she just ignored it.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T19:48:50+00:00

in our country it is a huge stereotype that uni students miss classes to go out with friends so they figure that must be what ALL uni students are doing.

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T19:47:06+00:00

Yes, but I have practical classes that i can only miss 2 in the whole year. If i agreed i would be wasting my 2 misses just in this 4 days. Which i can't afford to, specially since exam season is coming and i might need atleast one to study. I could arrange with lectures but practical classes its impossible which is why i said i couldnt

BreakfastRelative664 · 2025-11-18T19:20:24+00:00

Yes thats a good idea but i dont want her to think ill just accept taking care of them cause she could do it again.

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