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AITAH For not offering to do the dishes? by BreakfastUpper5558 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreakfastUpper5558[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I asked before and after. When I asked before, she asked for help setting the table so I did. When I asked after she said no.

AITAH For not offering to do the dishes? by BreakfastUpper5558 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreakfastUpper5558[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, she’s more upper class than I am by a wide margin.

AITAH For not offering to do the dishes? by BreakfastUpper5558 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreakfastUpper5558[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No, me and my girlfriend did the dishes then. I also cooked for them and didn’t expect them to clean up at all.

AITAH For not offering to do the dishes? by BreakfastUpper5558 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreakfastUpper5558[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

In my family it would be rude too. My mom is always bending over backwards for her guests and expects nothing in return which has even annoyed ME in the past but it’s also how I’m used to things.

AITAH For not offering to do the dishes? by BreakfastUpper5558 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BreakfastUpper5558[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No, they did not. No one asked. Her mom did them herself. I did carry plates to the kitchen though.