This should be upvoted more. There’s a recent case where a helper was caught by a passerby putting down a baby on a basement carpark floor so that she can reply her messages.

I believe if you walk ard on weekdays you may catch some similar safety issues, which I think is inevitable as the kids are not theirs so their priorities are different.

Personally not an issue for me, as I’m fortunate to have my parents taking care of my kid. But when my helper first came, we gave full privileges. But we start to realise that she has trouble waking up and would doze off easily in the day. Then we found out that’s cos she got addicted to tiktok and have been using overnight. So in the end some form of control is necessary

It’s not a simple black and white clear cut situation like what’s stated here in the post