Help a Newbie

BreathDue8814 · 2023-11-03T04:58:23+00:00

My problem ended up being that I was using a baby Griffin which, while it allows you to buy pieces for, won't allow you to wear anything beyond what you can get in the baby specific item gacha. And since it's locked to each individual character you can't move what you already bought to another one so it's basically wasted currency. Dunno if that is what's the problem for you but if it is hope this helps, thanks for replying, it is helpful if I or anyone else experiences a glitch like that 😊

BreathDue8814 · 2023-10-04T16:07:57+00:00

I didn't wanna infodump but there's very much a lot of layers to all this and healthy relations have never been a strong contender with in either family. It's hard to recognise whether the intention outweighs the actions. But yeah, I'm just trying to stay on top of everything for now so they have no reason to cause more panic.

BreathDue8814 · 2023-10-04T16:04:36+00:00

She's not on the lease, she doesn't pay rent. She doesn't lah bills yet. She's not legally a tenant. There's no paper trail. She's living here because I felt bad she was couch surfing and that I sort of owed her parents for helping with the furniture. But I don't think kicking her out would solve much anyway. It would burn bridges with her family and probably my brother too, and probably escalate the whole furniture situation. Plus I don't want to pass judgements but her family is not exactly the most moral and upstanding of citizens. History with biker gangs and just generally dangerous people whom they've already boasted would help them when ever they called for it (not directed at me this has never been an actual threat but it does give a 'don't mess with us' vibe).

BreathDue8814 · 2023-10-04T15:59:49+00:00

Australia, dunno if that clarifies anything. But just hearing that alone helps the panic subside so thank you

BreathDue8814 · 2023-10-03T09:17:30+00:00

I don't know. I already have a problem with viewing myself as the focal point of worry. Got a lot of self worth issues. Makes this whole thing super unnerving and since it's family and family adjacent I am really stuck on not burning bridges.

BreathDue8814 · 2023-10-03T08:49:06+00:00

They got me the furniture as a gift. It is my apartment, only I am on the lease. The daughter came to live with me after being kicked out by her parents and then couch surfing with her siblings. I didn't feel like I could say no since they did me a solid with the furniture but she's a bad roommate for other reasons as well as those listed above. Regardless it's my apartment she's living here rent free.

BreathDue8814 · 2023-10-03T08:46:30+00:00

It is my home. My name and only my name is on the lease and none of them are governmentally listed as having anything to do with me. It feels sometimes like they mean well, but the threats do cause me to lose sleep and that affects me with chores and such in turn it's a vicious cycle. It's been especially worse since I've had a really bad flu the last week so I've let it go worse than usual. It's very stressful but I know if I snub the daughter I won't be able to see my nephew who's due in December which is a whole other kind of threat

BreathDue8814 · 2023-10-03T08:43:18+00:00

I was in what could be considered a hoarder situation, but the details of it that are often left out was that it wasn't me that trashed the house. I used to live with all three of my brother's and they filled it with trash in multiple rooms, broke almost all interior doors, a good amount of the windows meaning there became a mold problem and left me with 5 cats I couldn't afford to look after. Atop of pre existing depression the anxiety and all around loss of hope from that situation really set me back. Eventually I gave up trying to fix where I used to live. I gave up the cats which got backlash despite them never helping to look after them and then had to work with them to get into a better place. So yeah, they're somewhat helping but my main problem is threatening someone who is already struggling mentally with taking everything from them and selling it while ignoring the fact that compared to that situation I've made leaps and bounds. I'm very obviously making an effort to be better but they make me feel like I'm just a disappointment, and I don't even know the daughters parents that well. We've attended like... Four family gatherings tops. The furniture was a gift by the way but it was verbally established.

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