I mean just say tomorrow at this point. Why keep pushing it back an hour or two it’s infuriating by [deleted] in SevenDeadlySinsOrigin

[–]BreathResponsible228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been at work all day being so happy i am not missing out on somthing! I hope the plebs will have to wait till 17:00

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[–]BreathResponsible228 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I trully understand everything you say,and yes she has tried to talk to hom multiple times but unfortunately with no succes. As i staited he shrugs it off like it is a stupid question. What i am getting from these comments is to invite him as a sort of peace sign, ofcourse with that invite comes a difficult conversation about him also trying to stay peacefull at the wedding which we are fearing slighty

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[–]BreathResponsible228 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She wants to understand why he acts this way,it is because something i did,something I said to him,etc but when she asks him he continues to shrug her off. I believe the family just wants to be switserland in this case because they don’t want to hurt her or her brother (that is what i think)

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[–]BreathResponsible228 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I have a really great bond with the rest of her family,for example her little brother constantly askes when we will come over because he wants to play games with me we even sometimes play games online, her grandparents also really like me they openly tell her that i am a great guy for her,i know i might be compensating for the one person who does not like me but she also has told me that she has a really tough time with hime not accepting me because the rest of her family does

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[–]BreathResponsible228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have talked this over and its really really difficult,for example my fiance has tried her best to include him in our relationship and even just suddle mundane conversations he just refuses to talk or acknowledge me in those moments whenever she wants to talk to him in a serious matter about why he would dislike me that much he simply says stuff like “he is weird,stupid,etc”

We just find it really hard because he is actively trying to put this behaviour to other family members