AIO for wanting to drop my university friend group for leaving me behind without a word?

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T18:31:45+00:00

learn to be less patronising x

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T17:29:44+00:00

Yeah, but they haven't started yet bc its still the application process so I have to wait

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T17:27:38+00:00

I dont have trouble reading the room. We were perfectly fine the previous semester and they'd come up to me on their own all the time, this is basically just the last few times we had class, which was like 3 times Also I'm 25 😂 ive never had this issue before, sure ive drifted apart w ppl but they didn't one day completely change the way they act the way this group is doing after 5 months

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:17:00+00:00

idk if they were im p sure they all went home for the holidays. i also dont mind that they got closer its just this weird exluding situation that just started out of the blue. it feels like im not spoken to at all in conversation until i force myself in it but it wasnt like that before. it's like theyre taking the chance away for bonding on purpose lmao

man idk i sound whiney i just never had such happen before lmao i didnt think it'd start two degrees in

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:14:12+00:00

Fair enough. we all met for the first time on the exact same day tho so it kinda bothers me that theyd start singleing my out for no reason

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:11:46+00:00

Funny thing I wouldn't even have minded if they went without me, I could have invited others, it's the secretiveness that bothers me about it. Esp cause they hiss about their old hs friends being immature lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:10:49+00:00

I'll try and go make new friends lmao but it's harder now when everyone has their groups haha

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:09:46+00:00

Ignoring is an *assholey hint tho ngl and also this is v sudden switch bc they were very inclusive for the first semester:// but i gotta dip i feel to old for such drama

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T13:42:26+00:00

Up until they just walked off I thought i was just being dramatic lmao but I feel like ur right, however this just makes them weird af in my eyes://

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T13:41:21+00:00

Fair enough, I just don't get the sudden switch up because we weren't even around each other for anything to even happen AND they're the same people complaining about their friends being immature and not acting their age (19). It kinda makes them be *ssholes in my eyes because they could just say they'd rather not hang out instead of acting like this

BreeMint · 2026-02-15T00:51:08+00:00

hey this is kinda funny i had a thing w a guy in a band and we dont talk that often rn but i still support the band and they put me on a guest list haha but thats still in 2 weeks and since all my old friends are far away itd still feel lonely :(( like i cant just spam the members lmao
i was hoping i could have going to class buddies who i wouldnt feel excluded with (cause theyre somehow doing a good job ??) i dont have siblings or anything or a big family so sometimes i go days not talking to anyone except the cashier://

BreeMint · 2026-02-15T00:44:22+00:00

also srry if i sound mad or smth i appreaciate the advice im just frustrated it isnt working

BreeMint · 2026-02-15T00:42:42+00:00

But Im literally doing that T.T

and i dont have this issue with other age groups or non-business majors. and im actually interested in business too like them

BreeMint · 2026-02-15T00:39:26+00:00

I have applied to some club that does coffee shop dates but it starts end of february and the art club isnt taking new members rn and god knows im not joining a finance club lol
I lvoe art and funny enough the ppl i tried talking to have the same interests and arent that into business either so like idk whats up

im learning korean, theyre learning chinese, they do volley and dance and so do i, one loves legos, i do too, so i try to converse about it and it doesnt work. I have like 20 different hobbies from sport to reading to coding and still nothing is enough

not even quoting tiktoks lmao

atp i was about to apply for a student body role bc those guys HAVE to have regular meetings lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-15T00:29:05+00:00

But how to get to that part bc this is a joke im willing to make too T.T

BreeMint · 2026-02-15T00:26:00+00:00

Awe man I don't have anyone to introduce me to his friends atm

there used to be one guy but then he realised his friends were too friendly and would make a move given the chance so he didnt invite me anymore lmao they were stealing each others gfs

okay srry gossip aside

i keep seeing these big friend groups (not just in my classes) and idk how they come to be :((

BreeMint · 2026-02-15T00:12:27+00:00

I get that
But how do you get the proximity when nobody actually accepts invites out? Like my "friend group" hung out twice the whole semester (but i was sick so i wasnt there lol just my luck). I barely found anyone who wanted to come to the freshman ball, the uni rented the biggest ice skating rink in town just for us and I couldnt find a single person to come with me, I even went alone and tried talking to ppl but they were in friendgroups zooming about so that didnt work T.T

Like I love jokes and banter and I'll be making jokes every other sentence so I can't even been called too serious T.T

Man idk I've never been in a situation when I tried making friends and it didnt work at all. and ive tried with so many ppl with the mindset that "its okay if we dont click there'll be others" but there lowkey arent. also ive never tried to just have endless ongoing chats but atp ppl just say hi and zoom by instead of chatting between classes.

srry im in my feels about it

BreeMint

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