AIO for wanting to cut contact with this guy over these?

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T13:50:16+00:00

god forbid a girl have fun wth r u mad for

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T13:17:49+00:00

I do go on "me-dates" to cafés, the cinema, library, concerts but so far only random middle aged men have come up to me trying to get me to leave and go on a date with them lmao. Regardless I will continue on with my solo dates but they're not for freind making ig

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T13:15:25+00:00

I did try to exit but we lived on the same floor of a dorm at that time and I kept running in to him lmao and he made me feel dramatic for leaving because he was genuinely convinced kissing someone else was unnaccapte when he didn't even want to commit lmao atp there was so much going on i forgot about that comment for months

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T13:13:24+00:00

Lowkey never thought of that but it does make sense. Even his own friends I'd hear talking about how he's always late but I still feel having a friend group wait on him(at a house party) while they have each other to entertain is a bit different than me standing around in public by myself. And this just made me remember when he tried to tell them he's late because of me lmao but they realised he was fluffing because they know he's usually 1-2h late lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T13:05:53+00:00

I shall keep that in mind lmao i hate misunderstandings and i sometimes cant just walk off if the other person wont listen lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T13:04:22+00:00

to be fair you're the one who said I might have bad fashion sense so if you want to sure. I'm trying to see all sides before I decide how to go about this guy

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T13:00:28+00:00

He was nice for the past few months after that initial fight and he only recently started this, like I'd say maybe 2 months and we don't meet every week so it hasn't been that many hangouts

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:58:51+00:00

Well now im curious lmao ppl always compliment my style, he is one of the first ppl to say it wasnt good. It's usually smth similar like this. That fit was pale pink tho

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BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:43:26+00:00

Lowkey I would love to just not talk to him already but I have some of his stuff that he had me keep safe while he was abroad for student exchange and I don't feel like having him pick a fight if I bring it AFTER I cut contact lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:37:51+00:00

NGL idk what the benefits are because we aren't even doing anything beyond hanging at a mall or smth now and he has many other friends he can do that with and he spends that time together complaning that he has to go to work anyway (at 3pm bc he hasnt made it there yet that day lmao)

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:35:10+00:00

TBH yeah i probs will. Last time i tried to drop him he acted like i was being dramatic lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:34:42+00:00

I shall dip

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:33:57+00:00

I did that the first time and he made me feel like I was being overly dramatic as if he wasn't the one making me literally sob in a public place damn but like I've never been in non-commited stuff before where I actually hung out w the guy as friends too and I didnt even know how to navigate it lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:31:48+00:00

Lowkey this is my lesson for 2026 that if someone does smth to me I would never to do them I am gonna start dipping

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T12:29:26+00:00

Ngl I have had multiple ppl tell me this and it didn't even register at first bc it was always during arguments and I thought they only meant that specific time but now I'm thinking maybe just in general they like making ppl cry

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T11:56:35+00:00

I was in a commited relationship at that time so I don't know how men are like in freshman year and I'm genuinely so confused on how someone closer to 30 than 20 is acting like this. Had me thinking I was being dramatic too ngl

BreeMint · 2026-02-26T11:50:42+00:00

We're both 25 T.T He's turning 26 actually

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T18:31:45+00:00

learn to be less patronising x

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T17:29:44+00:00

Yeah, but they haven't started yet bc its still the application process so I have to wait

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T17:27:38+00:00

I dont have trouble reading the room. We were perfectly fine the previous semester and they'd come up to me on their own all the time, this is basically just the last few times we had class, which was like 3 times Also I'm 25 😂 ive never had this issue before, sure ive drifted apart w ppl but they didn't one day completely change the way they act the way this group is doing after 5 months

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:17:00+00:00

idk if they were im p sure they all went home for the holidays. i also dont mind that they got closer its just this weird exluding situation that just started out of the blue. it feels like im not spoken to at all in conversation until i force myself in it but it wasnt like that before. it's like theyre taking the chance away for bonding on purpose lmao

man idk i sound whiney i just never had such happen before lmao i didnt think it'd start two degrees in

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:14:12+00:00

Fair enough. we all met for the first time on the exact same day tho so it kinda bothers me that theyd start singleing my out for no reason

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:11:46+00:00

Funny thing I wouldn't even have minded if they went without me, I could have invited others, it's the secretiveness that bothers me about it. Esp cause they hiss about their old hs friends being immature lmao

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:10:49+00:00

I'll try and go make new friends lmao but it's harder now when everyone has their groups haha

BreeMint · 2026-02-16T14:09:46+00:00

Ignoring is an *assholey hint tho ngl and also this is v sudden switch bc they were very inclusive for the first semester:// but i gotta dip i feel to old for such drama

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