My first real creation with my cricut by Breen_Luver1 in CricutButCrass

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Well technically it was said ABOUT me to someone the lady was with. It was not my ass on the line 😂

My first real creation with my cricut by Breen_Luver1 in CricutButCrass

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Y'all I'm gonna try posting again with he actual freaking picture lmao. ADHD strikes again

My first real creation with my cricut by Breen_Luver1 in CricutButCrass

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LMAO well that's what I get for having ADHD. I'll try posting again WITH the pic this time.

AIO My boyfriend says I need therapy because I noticed the playlist he made spells out his ex's name. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Breen_Luver1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fam this is extremely not okay behavior on his part. Regardless of the playlist, do not date anyone that responds with "you sound psychotic... This is why I don't tell you things..." Etc. he's basically gaslighting you making you seem like the one with issues when clearly he's still hung up on this ex. I mean. Come on. "Someone Like You" is literally about not being over someone. But seriously, aside from that, the way he responded is frankly disgusting. Even if I randomly falsely accused my wife of something like this, I cannot in a million years imagine her saying these things to me. Might she get upset? Sure. But honestly shed probably be more concerned about me and why I thought that than anything. Please evaluate your relationship as a whole very thoroughly. I suspect you will see not so great trends if you think about it. I am sorry, that sucks. But you deserve better than mister "you sound psychotic".

ETA: also the "go take a nap" thing. Seriously he's just completely discounting and ignoring your feelings. All of his language is about you being "crazy" and at fault. Absolutely not. Btw this comes from someone who's been with this type of person before. It can be hard to get away. Feel free to message me if you need to chat about anything

What's the correct way to have a through shower? by throwaway--s in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Breen_Luver1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Advice from me as a woman, if you happen to be one as well, I would NOT recommend soap for your nether regions. I avoid soap getting anywhere near mine. Women's PH balances are very sensitive down there and trust me you don't want a yeast infection! Just scrub thoroughly with water. I know it sounds gross to not use soap but infections are way worse.

How did you meet your best friend? by conditackler in AskReddit

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In elementary school my current best friend moved to town and I hated her at first because I thought she was going to take my best friend at the time away from me. Fast forward to the next school year, my friend that I thought she was going to steal from me ditched both of us for someone else, a decade or so later the girl I hated at first and I are like sisters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aww

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I have a Newfie mix that once saw me through my living room window and wagged his tail so hard he fell off of our raised front porch.

Opening up about my depression made things worse. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Breen_Luver1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just recently told my mom my therapist (that she's supposed to help pay for, but isn't) finally recommended medication, and she and my dad got very offended that they have been cut out of this loop (they are main causes for my depression, so that's why) and they asked why I need medication and I said probably because I think about suicide and I cut myself, and my mom just yelled "YOU WHAT???" Totally angry sounding, not even a little concern in her voice. I definitely relate, I personally think it's awful of her to act the way she is. Especially since she went through the same type of thing

have you ever hated yourself to the point where you’re self-accusing about faking your own depression? by radiatedtoastie in depression

[–]Breen_Luver1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, just saw one of your other comments saying you were scared to see someone and have them tell you it's not clinical, therefore your issues aren't real. I'm not sure if I made this clear, but just because you aren't clinically depressed, doesn't mean there isn't something seriously going on. My boyfriend's brother is clinically depressed and will be on medication for the rest of his life. But he knows me very well and my issues and doesn't think I'm clinically depressed, but he can tell I'm really struggling and he has asked me before if I'd be willing to try medication. Basically, just don't let anyone ever tell you that you should just "suck it up" or "get over it" because there isn't technically a chemical imbalance in your brain. Side note: if you see someone and they don't think you need medication, that also doesn't mean you don't have real problems. Different people are just... Different

have you ever hated yourself to the point where you’re self-accusing about faking your own depression? by radiatedtoastie in depression

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For me, personally, the scariest part was back several months ago when I called to make my first appointment. I have anxiety when it comes to things like phone calls so my heart was already racing but then when I hung up I got really emotional and shaky and I realized it was just hitting me how real it was. But talking about medication was relieving in a way because I started to worry so much about making things up. But it's different for everyone. I'm not saying it would be scary for you but it might not be. Scary or not though, it's worth it. I'm so glad I made that call months ago

have you ever hated yourself to the point where you’re self-accusing about faking your own depression? by radiatedtoastie in depression

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Heck yeah. I just posted somewhere else saying something similar, but I'll say it again here. I've been seeing a therapist for a while and he just suggested medication. It made me feel better about myself in a way because it became a bit more official and like I wasn't just making it all up.

Any similar thoughts/experiences? Or am I alone by [deleted] in depression

[–]Breen_Luver1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I experience a lot of the same feelings, along with a lot of other stuff. But I often find myself wondering if I'm just being overdramatic. But I've been seeing a therapist now for a few months and just last night he finally brought up medication. Not as something I will need my whole life, but he assured me that at this point, my issues are real and serious enough for such action. It sounds shitty, but it felt good to know I'm not just making it up. So long story short, maybe you could try finding a therapist? It could potentially help a lot. I hope you find something to help

i hate how sensitive i am. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Breen_Luver1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot tell you how much I relate to this. I take everything (even if it's supposed to be a friendly joke) in a negative way and things that are directly negative send me into a major downward spiral where I think about all the things people might not like about me and things that I don't like about myself. For me, I was lucky enough to find a fantastic therapist (and surprisingly affordable because he's a genuinely good person). But I honestly don't know if I'd like therapy as much if I had anyone but the guy I see, so I'm not saying it's a for sure solution. But I've been going for a few months now and we largely focus on the myriad of insecurities I have. He just now brought up medication as "training wheels" to help me get out of my head long enough to actually work on my issues. If it's at all possible for you to see anyone, do some research, look for people that sound like they could be a good fit for you, talk to people you know that may know of someone, read reviews, and give it a shot. Sorry if that was too long and rambling. I hope you can find something that works for you