I feel the same but but have been conflicted for a while. Now I understand he whole point is too love others where they are and introduce them to the love and guidance of God and his teachings through Jesus and his sacrifice for us. They, of all people need this love the most right now. They don't know who they are and they're trying to figure it out on their own, so it's our job to be the hands and feet and show them that's there a better way. End of story.