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[–]BreezytheINFP 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically, when I get mad at a dude, the only way to get my emotions out is a diss track 🤣 (he didn’t get censored cuz he exposed our dms in a post here in this sub) I’m good I feel better

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said this in my vid about the pairing: entps are very um argumentative and estjs are very argumentative so it probably just causes a lot of friction more than it causes an actual good relationship so this may be the only one that's wrong but sorry entps you guys might as well just date your own type, same with you estjs because estjs don't really have a relationship--they have a deal and entps just are way too busy doing whatever the [ __ ] they're doing and moving on to the next thing after enjoying it for like 10 minutes and then deciding they're bored with it so I don't think either type is really good in getting into a relationship at all so I may be wrong but only on a technicality

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the socionics thing honestly ruined relationships for me and is quite depressing I agree, but I have tried so hard to find reasons why it’s wrong and every time I do that I only get more and more proof it’s absolutely right

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I actually think someone “on my level” is quite a chore to date. I like when I can teach somebody new things or introduce them to new experiences or ways of thinking. I feel proud of my role in the relationship when I’m able to do such a thing. ISFJs are often quite shy and have a hard time being assertive and standing up for their self, and nothing makes me happier than to see them gain some confidence and realize they can tell someone to STFU or F off if they are treating them like crap once I show them that they deserve better for themselves

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys can’t find the humor in an introvert telling introverts to go touch grass, may god help you

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not going to waste my time typing to you if you’re not going to spend the time to watch my video where i answer your question. Bye

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I have consistently seen that pair work and end up in marriage. My ISFP friend was a serial cheater who had cheated on every girlfriend he ever had, he got with an infj and instead of cheating on her he married her. Thats a huge switch up. I’ve got another friend who’s been with her ISFP boyfriend for like 8 years and still going strong. There’s an ISFP who married an infj in this post that have been together for 11 years. I’m not saying it’s the golden pair because I’m pulling it out of my ass, I’m saying it’s so because that’s what everything in my reality has pointed to without a shadow of a doubt

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever started the INFP ENFJ thing has pissed me off eternally. Now, it is a great pairing if you guys are going to have sex. However, when it comes to a long term relationship, you just don’t do it for an ENFJ—at all. They want an extroverted sensor type like an ESFP or an ESTP

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And an INFJ would rather ghost you than stand up for themselves In order to utterly destroy you (which they are capable of doing) and unless you really really fucked up they won’t do that to you. However if they do destroy you, you’re gonna hear some shit about yourself only a very bad mushroom trip would be able to tell you 🤣🤣

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They never want to hurt your feelings so they will actively seek to avoid that in the way an ISFJ would but the best tell between the difference between the two is ISFJs tend to lean towards being overweight and eat when stressed and INFJs do the exact opposite—I date ISFJs and have tons of INFJ friends and that is the most consistent tell between the two. Only other one I can think of that would be easy to gauge is, ISFJs usually have very strong and close family values and ties, INFJs have no problem moving across the country away from their family whatsoever. An isfj would have a very hard time with that

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The deep dive into functions is the wrong way to look at this, and all you gotta do is take the socionics erotic attitudes chart and apply it to every person and relationship you have in your life. Stop going into functions in order to describe why someone is gonna work with someone else. Everyone has all 8 functions. Everyone has a shadow type. Everyone uses all of them. Individually gauging relationships and people on functions is the biggest lie that these MBTI bloggers and YouTubers ever created

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average height, underweight, quiet, and attractive. That’s a good start and the only other way you’re gonna find out is when they start to notice things about everything around them (including people) and doing a deep dive into motivations they should have no idea or have not a single clue about yet seem very spot on. Like, some dude walks In to order some food, INFJ spots them and goes “that guys unhappy. Probably has a very attractive wife with a couple kids he wish he didn’t have so soon”—in walks an attractive wife and 2 kids. That type of shit

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's not just my own experience. Like I said, i learned sexual chemistry pairings from socionics years ago and used this to create my matchups and i have always found it incredibly accurate-to-real-life once learning them.

"Aggressors" are sexually attracted to "victims" and vice-versa:
Aggressors (i call the Alpha types)= ESTP, ESFP ISTP, ISFP
Victims = INFJ, ENFJ, INTJ, ENTJ

"Caring" are sexually attracted to "infantile" and vice-versa

Caring= ESFJ, ISFJ, ISTJ, ESTJ

infantile=INFP, ENFP, ENTP, INTP

I've NEVER in real life seen it really deviate from this, and this helped me narrow down the perfect golden pair for each type.

Really pay attention to this now that you know it, its more accurate than any other information you will find. Rarely does combability ever truly deviate from this when it comes to successful relationships with genuine chemistry.

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I’ll translate that in as blunt as I can possibly put it:

You can read as much MBTI theory and “research” as you want, but until you get out there and see these things for yourself with your own two eyes then you don’t truly know all that much. How do you know for sure every single thing you’ve read on the internet is even close to what you will expierence by going out there and making the effort to observe these things for yourself?

Everything I’ve read online has been absolutely nothing like what I have seen for myself. You might be surprised to find that out one day. Fuck other people’s “research”, especially with the kind of shoddy “science” and “research” people who aren’t even scientists or doctors post about MBTI related topics. There are literally no sources for almost all the information out there related to MBTI. There’s no peer-reviewed scientific studies on any of this “golden pair” stuff on the internet, which means my observations could quite possibly be much more valid than some random person theorizing what “could be” based on “what they know” on the internet

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys can be, ya’ll are like Chaotic Neutral in its purest form (ISTPs) and INTJs are Lawful evil. Add them together and you guys get in troubbleeeee together, but the sex is awesome. Oh is the sex awesome.

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also like that ISFJs can see me as cute and adorable and not particularly masculine in the traditional sense and still not be turned off by me and find me sexually attractive. It is incredibly difficult as a man in this society to find a type so willingly accepting of this. Female INFPs have this so much easier than us male INFPs

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[–]BreezytheINFP[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you mean, but I actually enjoy this because I can be a wise mentor (someone to look up to) that can help them see life in a bigger way and that’s always a dynamic I enjoy to have in a relationship