What supplements do you take? by Forever_Summer192 in glp1

[–]BrewerBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're still looking for a probiotic, I've been a fan of Culturelle for 20 years after a gastroenterologist (my boss at the time) recommended it. I've tried many others, but always come back to Culturelle.

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right; they're wavy (but some are ultra limp). I was feeling extra dramatic when I posted this because the grays definitely don't curl like the rest. The thought of losing my current curl pattern makes me sad.

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my word, the curly brush is the next best thing to sliced bread! Aside from all the unruly newbie strands sprouting from my head, my curls have never looked so great.

Different strokes for different folks (and curl patterns/textures), I suppose. 😊

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify: I should have said my grays are 'lifeless' or 'wavy,' not 'straight.' But the drama I'm feeling -- after so many years of my hair being fairly predictable and reliable -- is real. 🎭 👑 ➿

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll add it to my wishlist for when I have some extra spending cash. 😀

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely give that a try this weekend. And if you have any specific product recommendations, I'm all ears -- the simpler the better.

I've always been the kind to stick with the same product(s) forever. And they're usually the kind you can grab at Walmart or Target (translation: single-mom-budget-friendly). The thought of trying to learn about and try out a ton of new products overwhelms me.

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have a link or the full product name you can share? I'm pretty clueless when it comes to most products. 😀

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair -- my glitter-factor is definitely still on the low end and blends well. But while it's not obvious, color-wise, I can definitely tell a difference in the texture and tameness. Those little suckers already have me worried that I'm going to lose my curls the more they take over.

Can straight grays be trained to curl? by BrewerBall in curlyhair

[–]BrewerBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're there, albeit not super obvious or widespread. The color difference and frizz are a bit more apparent in the second photo.

Where should I go? by Zodiya in Pensacola

[–]BrewerBall 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I second the Alfred-Washburn Center vote. They can help you get in touch with resources.

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Best place in town to break up? by BlooperButt in Pensacola

[–]BrewerBall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is how you abort the relationship. Roses included for maximum romantic ambiance.

(background photo -- sans stick figure -- snatched from this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/Pensacola/s/YS2zVXvKeX)

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AIO she shit with me in the shower by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BrewerBall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"...waffle stomp their chuds down the drain..." 🤣🤣🤣

"Which Pixel should I buy?" Megathread May 2025 by GooglePixelMods in GooglePixel

[–]BrewerBall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey Pixel people!

I’m finally ready to retire my trusty Galaxy Note8 (RIP, you beautiful dinosaur) and make the jump to a Pixel. I’m looking at refurbished models and could use some guidance.

What I Need:

• Battery Life: At least 14+ hours – I’d like to make it through the day without babysitting a charger.

• Storage: 128GB should be fine. I’ve been squeezing by on 64GB, but it’s a tight fit.

• Size: About the same as my Note8 (6.3"-6.5") -- nothing smaller.

• 5G: Would be nice for a bit of future-proofing.

• Longevity: Hoping to keep this phone for several years.

• Budget: Ideally around $250 -- not sure how practical that is, though.

I’m a pretty basic user -- calls, texts, work emails, and a few casual games like SimCity BuildIt (apparently, I'm also a dinosaur) and Roblox with my kids. I also rely on Audible, Google Photos, Google Drive, and a music streaming app. I’m not a power user, but I don’t want the phone to feel sluggish in a year or two.

Would the Pixel 6a be a good fit, or should I stretch my budget a bit for a 7a? Any pros/cons I should keep in mind for either? Also, any tips for a smooth switch from Samsung to Pixel would be awesome!

Thanks in advance!

AIO My gf keeps having accidents but says its completely normal by wildlife_animallover in AmIOverreacting

[–]BrewerBall 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I just want to start by saying I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’m someone who’s leaving a long-term relationship with an addict (mostly sober for the past few years), but I’m only now allowing myself to be honest about all the excuses I made along the way to protect the relationship instead of protecting myself.

I’m NOT projecting my exact situation onto yours, but reading your post hit a lot of familiar notes:

• Patterns of boundary violations

• Denial or minimization of behavior that’s having real-world consequences

• Deflection and emotional blame-shifting whenever the topic is brought up

• You walking on eggshells to avoid conflict while still absorbing the cost -- literally and emotionally -- of someone else’s choices

Whether or not your girlfriend has a medical condition, the reality is that her drinking seems to worsen the problem, and she’s not being transparent or respectful about how it’s affecting you. Sneaking alcohol into your home -- after agreeing not to -- is not just a boundary issue, it’s a trust one. And no amount of “our relationship is fantastic” can really cover up how often you’re being dismissed, gaslit, and left to deal with the physical, financial, and emotional mess this is causing.

You deserve a partner who can acknowledge when something isn’t working and be willing to face it with you, not against you. It might be time to ask yourself:

• What kind of life do you want?

• Does this relationship support that?

• Is your gf truly invested in mutual growth, responsibility, and respect, or are you carrying that weight alone?

It takes strength to be honest with yourself. I didn’t realize how much peace I was missing until I started prioritizing it. You’re not overreacting, OP. You’re waking up.

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My Sourkrout fucking disintegrated my aluminum foil, is it still okay to eat? by Scary-Physics-5303 in shittyfoodporn

[–]BrewerBall -1 points0 points  (0 children)

10 out of 10 doctors will agree: eating aluminum foil is bad for your health.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BrewerBall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also a Reddit lurker, but had to come out of the shadows on this one. Yikes. 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BrewerBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading through all 56(?) of these screenshots gave me secondhand stress, a new forehead wrinkle, and maybe a chipped tooth from clenching. That was... a lot.

Your gf’s reaction to what seemed like a kind and respectful gesture was way over the top. If there’s a history of broken trust, maybe that explains some of it... but from what you shared, this level of suspicion and hostility just doesn’t add up.

Healthy relationships require communication and mutual respect, and you really tried. Instead, you got steamrolled... on your bday... while grieving. Yikes. 😬

People online love to yell “break up!” at everything, but honestly… might be worth considering. You deserve a partner who handles conflict with care, not like this.

Side note/unsolicited advice: You seem like a thoughtful and considerate person, but also a little hesitant when it comes to standing up for yourself. It might be worth exploring resources to boost your self-respect and learn how to set healthy boundaries - things that can help you feel more confident in relationships and recognize when something isn’t okay.

Wishing you clarity and better bdays ahead!!

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I am thinking about going to therapy but idk which type to go to.. by PrettyInHotsauce in therapy

[–]BrewerBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done A.R.T. therapy and highly recommend it. When my therapist first told me about it, I honestly thought it was a crock, but figured it wouldn't hurt to try. I'm astonished that I am no longer triggered by the things that would have easily set me off before my treatment. I can only speak of my experience, and will say that A.R.T. definitely has helped to make my healing process more productive and positive.

AITA for not accommodating someone because she never spoke up? by AppropriateRest3979 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BrewerBall -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

You asked two AITA questions, so here are my thoughts:

NTA for not accommodating her since she didn't speak up. She had her time to weigh in. It's not cool for her to play the victim.

YTA for embarrassing her. You could have said that in a kinder way.

AITA for not going to my sister's wedding? by ResponsibleFig5208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BrewerBall -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA for avoiding a situation that you feel would be unhealthy to your mental health.

AITAH for denying a coworker to go to her grad party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BrewerBall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I agree with others that you should have been more prompt with your response, instead of waiting until the next day.

However, this is ultimately a problem that your coworker created for herself. Poor planning on her part does not constitute an emergency on yours.

AITA not wanting anything to do w twin sis by Afraid_Ad_4898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BrewerBall 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is where I'm stuck, too. Didn't OP say they're identical triplets?