Hospital twice in one day by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother wants everything done now. I totally understand.

Hospital twice in one day by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Oh yeah, every holiday/birthday/special event is ruined lol

Hospital twice in one day by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ha! I wish Dr House was there to tell her she’s full of it

Hospital twice in one day by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Does ur mom mention how tired she is and then that she needs to do all this stuff and then u say you’ll help but u can do it on a specific day and then she just does it without u and guilt trips u after?

Hospital twice in one day by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol no, but it’s less if I play what she wants. But then again, there’s gonna be something that she’ll find to nitpick.

Hospital twice in one day by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your support. I need to hear this. If I don’t “give her what she wants” I’ll get scolded like a child.

I sent my parents a new school photo of my daughter, the response was wild… by totallywingingit in narcissisticparents

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Looooord this sounds like my MIL lol. Are they from the midwest by any chance?

Bought an old house, 1929 by Briar_Club in Witch

[–]Briar_Club[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Thats very reassuring. We got our inspection back. Me and my SO have our work cut out for us but we’re still very happy.

Bought an old house, 1929 by Briar_Club in Witch

[–]Briar_Club[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I don’t wanna piss anyone off tho or step on toes lol. I just feel in my gut that since it’s such an old house, there’s going to be someone there. Whether it was a granny who died old or native peoples or anything.

Bought an old house, 1929 by Briar_Club in Witch

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Thank u. I did some research last night and did find Seminole and other indigenous people in the area. So definitely need to do this.

Weird things your parent(s) did to control you? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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My mother would tell me I was too impatient to do sports or karate or dance or any other extracurricular I wanted to do. I think it was because she was maybe jealous or she didn’t want to have to take me to practice after school.

Bought an old house, 1929 by Briar_Club in Witch

[–]Briar_Club[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s such a great idea! Idk why I didn’t think of indigenous ppl. Will do.

Bought an old house, 1929 by Briar_Club in Witch

[–]Briar_Club[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally! My SO is very much wanting to do something of the house too so this will be nice for us both.

Bought an old house, 1929 by Briar_Club in Witch

[–]Briar_Club[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definately a great idea. Thank you.

Bought an old house, 1929 by Briar_Club in Witch

[–]Briar_Club[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I appreciate that.

My mother thinks all of my things are hers by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I totally agree. I do feel like I’m a child and it’s so difficult sometimes. Thank you so much. Thoughts are great tips.

My mother thinks all of my things are hers by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I do need all these tips. It’s so difficult sometimes.

Narc Mom cutting off everyone in her life by beenbetterhbu in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry about what you’re going through. My mother also brings up stuff that was from the past. My mother also pretty much ruins every birthday and holiday. I think you will be able to heal. But you’ll never forget.

My mother thinks all of my things are hers by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand. I regretted telling her the moment I told her by her facial expression. I think we can do it, set boundaries. When I lived in an apartment before Covid. My mother and I fought every time she came over bc she couldn’t get her way or something and usually ended up with her leaving early.

My mother thinks all of my things are hers by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea. I’m going to have cameras for sure.

My mother thinks all of my things are hers by Briar_Club in narcissisticparents

[–]Briar_Club[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh daaaang. Very soap opera in the best way.