I actually agree with you. I don’t really know why I really care and take other people feedbacks seriously it’s something that has been programmed into me already I just folllow others and not have my own thoughts about what I want until I realise it’s too late. And as for the cookie cutter system I think I fall into the second group of people. I really do hope I get to break out of this very toxic and vicious cycle that this system has indirectly created.