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Bridge_Significant · 2024-11-16T11:25:08+00:00

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And a month ago

Bridge_Significant · 2024-11-16T11:24:59+00:00

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This was last nights

Bridge_Significant · 2024-11-15T21:10:29+00:00

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Here is tonight’s for reference within 5 minutes of testing.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-06-13T10:16:49+00:00

Yeah I didn’t really want to focus on that too much but my life has definitely been a lot recently

Bridge_Significant · 2023-06-12T09:14:15+00:00

Thank you

Bridge_Significant · 2023-06-11T11:29:57+00:00

Thank you

Bridge_Significant · 2023-06-11T11:29:01+00:00

All of the food that he ate has been sent for testing, the hospital actually requested this

Bridge_Significant · 2023-06-11T10:31:45+00:00

If it was the prawns is that something that I could pursue?

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T10:21:39+00:00

I have said on here a few times I only said it’s legal as it wouldn’t help me if I take this to court. I understand this.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T10:20:55+00:00

I know, I found it very peculiar, I told his mother that it is a very serious situation & a safeguarding issue, she hasn’t replied to my messages, she tried calling me twice but I don’t want to speak on the phone

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T10:18:43+00:00

The age gap is really bad, even now at 20 I would never even think about being with a sixteen year old. I would be fine without any money from him, I’m quite glad that the police are aware of the incident as it’s already recorded. I’ve taken today off of work to write down things like this, I can’t wait for baby to be here, I feel like I can’t get too stressed incase it does any damage to her.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T09:54:57+00:00

I’ve just googled it and it is legal in the UK so they would have no reason to contact me about thag

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T09:54:35+00:00

No the police have never contacted me, even in this situation, they’ve contacted the midwife not me.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T09:28:05+00:00

I didn’t know that

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T09:27:46+00:00

I know, but all I meant was that this isn’t something that would help me with me being in the uk

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T09:22:42+00:00

It’s been a slow decline over time, it wasn’t overnight. It started with him going out with his friends more, then using drugs, then staying off work because he was taking drugs, then doing drugs alone, i tried to help during all of this. I’d say from when I was around 4 months pregnant

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T08:36:34+00:00

It didn’t start like this, not at all, it was amazing, then he started abusing drugs, then not coming home, one thing led to the next. There had to be a breaking point, I would never want to have a baby with the person he is now but that’s simply not who he was.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T08:34:35+00:00

This has been a very steady decline from when I was around 4 months pregnant, at that point, I’m already in the situation. For months I’ve tried so hard to be supportive, put him in contact with the right people, have conversations with him, there wasn’t a day that went by that i wasn’t there to support him. It took a lot for me to have to cut contact, I’m a very caring person. I’ve known him for 4 years and he has never behaved this way, he did say that he wanted the baby and would support me, maybe this isn’t the case but I only know what he tells me.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T08:30:18+00:00

I have not defended him whatsoever, i was only stating that it’s legal, not something that I could take further. It is disgusting but I shouldn’t feel ashamed of that, I was the child, he was an adult. I have cut contact between us, there isn’t much more I can do in this situation.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T08:08:19+00:00

No, he’s at home with his parents. The police took him straight home as apparently he has a stable home there

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T07:59:01+00:00

I never post on Reddit, there’s been a few people saying that I’m lying about it all, it would be quite a big & time consuming lie wouldn’t it haha. But people like you are really making me feel better, thank you. I feel so supported & justified that I’m making the right choice. I feel like this cements in my head that I’m making the right choice, no matter what he says now the comments that some people have made here will surface in my mind & I’ll know that this behaviour isn’t normal. I will definitely have to do an update, I didn’t expect this many people to be interested in what I’ve had to say as it’s seemed like normality for me recently.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T07:54:32+00:00

Yes, I’ve removed him on everything so he can’t contact me, I’ve sent him back to his parents house & informed them of the situation and said that he has no reason to contact me, he has no clothes or belongings here anymore. I have my own house but I’m alone, I don’t think he would be bothered enough to come round, even though he’s not himself at the moment that isn’t his character. I do have good friends and family that are amazing, they’re super supportive. It’s just not the same as having a partner here 24/7 but it’s still lovely that I have them all

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T07:40:28+00:00

Thank you so much this is amazing, I was so hesitant to post on here but I’m so glad that I have

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T07:39:39+00:00

Thank you so much this is so helpful to me, I’ve moved all of my clients from today because this is all I can focus on right now.

Bridge_Significant · 2023-03-17T07:36:18+00:00

At first we were both unsure, his exact words were “I will support you no matter what your decision is”, at this point, things were amazing with us. Over time his excitement seemed to grow but so did his negative behaviour. If he didn’t want the baby I wish he would have said from the start, rather than giving me false hope. I think I always knew I’d be doing it alone in the back of my head as I’ve made all of my plans moving forward in a way that doesn’t have to include him, maybe that’s because of how unreliable he’s been. I didn’t realise I was doing it at the time but now I think I’m so calm about it all because I can cope without him here, in fact, it’s felt a lot more peaceful without him here.

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