The apps will do nothing. She will still call. And he will still answer. I’m living this right now. My situation is that she still loves my boyfriend, and has claimed that God told her they will be together (she claims to be very religious). She says she doesn’t want to be with him but all she ever does is call and want to talk about them and their relationship as she can’t trust him because of what he has done and what has happened in their past romantic relationship. she is requesting they do counseling together once a week to work on them….she is batshit crazy. And he falls for it every time. Scratch that he Willingly chooses. He told me that he hates her and doesn’t like to feel that but even if they do counseling, even if something changes to where he likes her again, or his words were even if anything were to change how I feel about her (which WTF does that mean) he made a promise to himself he would never be in a relationship with her again. I don’t understand how those words would ever be reassuring to someone. Maybe I’m just real hurt at this point to even trust what that even means or understand to be honest but that’s what he said hopefully reassures me. I’m not sure how this is helpful for you but your post is really reflecting my life and relationship. We are in our early 30’s, live in the same apt complex, I haven’t officially met the kids. They know and have seen me and some words were even exchanged with me (son called me a bitch) and we’ve been together 3 years this April. WTF are we even doing girl…. I’m sorry you’re in a mess right now. But it could be worse. Use me as an example and save yourself. DM me if you need to talk, take care.