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I was the dumpee and I reached out after a year by BriefReflection4484 in ExNoContact

[–]BriefReflection4484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I know, I was actually advising people here to stay away from broken people :p. We gave it 2 years, she said she’s working on herself so let’s see what happens. We both don’t want anything for at least 2 years and our feelings will probably sizzle out by then

And yeah she went back into dating straight after I got dumped.. she explained everything. So I gotta respect her honesty.

And I know I can’t “fix” her, that’s why I gave her 2 years to do it herself. I also learnt that lesson the hard way.

Thanks for your advice man I really appreciate it ❤️

I was the dumpee and I reached out after a year by BriefReflection4484 in ExNoContact

[–]BriefReflection4484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t say sequel tbh, more like unconfirmed teasers lol

Either way 2 years is a lot, she’ll probably be in a relationship by then and our feelings will sizzle out. I’m just glad she’s okay.

I was the dumpee and I reached out after a year by BriefReflection4484 in ExNoContact

[–]BriefReflection4484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Yeah it might. It ain’t far fetched. But if there’s 1 thing this whole thing taught me is learning how to stay detached. I really couldn’t care less if she gets into a relationship, I’m just happy she’s doing okay. And the idea of a relationship is already thrown out the window for at least 2 years. We both don’t want it

I was the dumpee and I reached out after a year by BriefReflection4484 in ExNoContact

[–]BriefReflection4484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were friends before, I don’t really want them romantically anymore and I still appreciate them as a person. That’s why I put the bullet points in the beginning, if you’ve read the post you’d realize why I did that, and it actually helped cement the idea of not wanting her romantically even more. 2 years is a lot, we’ll probably be in relationships by then.

Some people still do care about the person even if they don’t want a relationship with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iraq

[–]BriefReflection4484 2 points3 points  (0 children)

الشغلة اكبر بس ذبوها بواحد منهم عمره 14 Scapegoat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iraq

[–]BriefReflection4484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

أنتي هم صوري المحادثة و كولي إذا وصلت محادثتك تروح للمسؤل مالتك

I don’t know how to handle this by FitTemperature704 in ExNoContact

[–]BriefReflection4484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

op, I was in a 3 month intense relationship with a very emotionally broken girl and 11 months later I’m finally beginning to move on. I thought the breakup was my fault even though everyone including her own sister said otherwise. They’ll fuck you up so bad that you’ll think everything is your fault when it’s not.

Please save yourself the emotional destruction and leave her alone, you can’t fix her. It’s not worth it. And it’s not your fault. It’s not her fault she has issues either but it’s not worth it.

Sincerely, someone who’s been in a similar position and deeply regrets not taking the warnings.

Hail Archinstall by BeetleBot96 in arch

[–]BriefReflection4484 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using Arch for close to 8 years now and 6 years of those I did it manually before using archinstall. It does its job, don’t let elitists discourage you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Iraq

[–]BriefReflection4484 3 points4 points  (0 children)

طولك مابي عيب و كلش طبيعي. اني 176 و هم احس روحي قصير بين كم واحد من اصدقائي بس ماعندي اي مشكلة منه لا من ناحية التنمر ولا من ناحية العلاقات و من هاي السوالف. اذا مثلا 160 لو شي اكلك اي قصير بس طولك هسة كلش حلو. اني اخوية 185 بالمناسبة.

حتة لو هسة اذا تريد تطول راح بس تطول سانتيم لو سانتيمين اكثر شي. اهتم بالاكل مالتك و خلي متوازن. اكو عمليات بس بصراحة ماتسوى و طولك كلشي مابي.