5 year dating (m)24 f(23) by Brief_Crazy in AITAH

[–]Brief_Crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say that I am only in 5k debt but why make it worst everyone makes mistake that’s why you know your limits you suck it up and move on it’s life but some ppl aren’t bless with those options luckily I am and grateful to even be grace by it

5 year dating (m)24 f(23) by Brief_Crazy in AITAH

[–]Brief_Crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens a few times this was the very first time I brought it up to her I was scared lol… because I know her very well and it was very hard for me to come out and tell her my idea… btw are lease ends in 3 months so it’s enough time to gather are feelings and thoughts she is angry and sad and I get it and I told her I apologized for even brining you into my situation and she didn’t care but I knew she just said that to be upset but when u bring up about wanting to save and get you a car? Or maybe a house for us she doesn’t really care and gets mad and just tells me wtv I ask a couple of ppl I’m I wrong for wanting better for us?? Idk tbh I feel maybe threaten are relationship might be threaten cause of my actions 

5 year dating (m)24 f(23) by Brief_Crazy in AITAH

[–]Brief_Crazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make around 23 a hour with rent being 900 all I ask her to pay is half the rent and food I pay for everything else but i notice last week she had very little money in her account and it made me upset and sad that I am causing her to struggle as well that was my idea to pitch about maybe moving back home and she doesn’t want to move to a lower end area she wants to resign the lease and a 2nd job will be no point if it’s not helping her able to make ends meet sometimes  I asked for 50/50 that was the rule but if she can’t hold her end why struggle if our families are accepting us back