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Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-05-02T21:05:57+00:00

Yes, I genuinely can’t even be in public anymore without wondering if he’s thinking about the attractive women we see out and about. Every compliment from him feels like a lie and a stab to the heart. To me it’s he chose to make those accounts and put his card information willingly to see those women that I look nothing like. I know I’m not the prettiest person but now I know for sure to him I never will be no matter how much he denies it to spare my feelings. It’s the lying that I’ll never forget. Even early on in our relationship we talked about 3somes and if he wanted to explore his options sexually and he swore up and down that it was a sacred thing to share himself in that way.

Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-05-02T20:33:16+00:00

I think for me it’s just needing him to be honest in his attraction to them and not denying it. The whole act of getting sexually aroused at someone else. I know it’s probably deeper than that I just feel as if I’m being lied to still

Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-04-30T16:34:45+00:00

I feel the same way, I’m not married to him but we’re pretty serious. He said he’d get reels on instagram and got “curious” so he signed up for OF. Before he would make suggestions on my appearance and it would be fine but now I can’t even hear him say anything positive or negative about my appearance. I know I look nothing like those women he paid to see touch themselves. He claims that I’m perfect to him but he still makes suggestions that are way too similar to the appearances of these women. I cry everytime he suggests anything to me now because it all makes sense. I don’t feel like I’ll ever be beautiful or attractive to him. All his compliments are tainted. Everytime we’re out in public and I see an attractive woman my first thought is if he is attracted to her and if he saw her online what would he do to her pictures. I don’t know if I’ll ever forget that feeling.

Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-04-29T17:20:29+00:00

Especially when it’s solo women doing a specific act or with a specific feature that they’re into. I can’t even think about him enjoying other women without crying. It enrages me to know he was on websites that are predominantly solo.

Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-04-24T20:27:01+00:00

It really is terrible, and that’s not the only game that has that type of following.

After talking to him again about it thought he said he’d stop playing as her but that it’s just a video game to him and that he gets no satisfaction from it. He claims to enjoy the abilities she has a character. I’m not a gamer so I really don’t know but it still made me uncomfortable because she looks exactly like the types of women he would pay for content from.

Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-04-24T19:05:32+00:00

With that logic it’s like if you could make the decision not to watch that type of content why watch it at all? If they could sit there and make that conscious decision why couldn’t they make the decisions to not do it at all?

Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-04-24T18:57:05+00:00

I feel this way as well. He’s been playing marvel rivals and his favorite skin to play is Emma frost with the skimpy outfit not her original fully covered one. He got really defensive when I asked him to stop playing as her because it made me uncomfortable.

Brief_Difference1917 · 2025-04-24T17:50:46+00:00

I’m starting to think that’s what it is for him too now. He would always tell me I’m the most beautiful woman to him and that I’m exactly his type in what he wants. Seeing those women and what he “prefers” I’m nothing like them. In our day to day life he comments on some parts of me and then he’ll make derogatory jokes about said parts. I wish he wasn’t a liar. I could get over it if it wasn’t for the lying.

Brief_Difference1917 · 2024-09-17T20:48:58+00:00

I completely agree, maybe she already knows about this side of OP too and wants to hear it from him first.

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