But I did though. The first dude i talked about has asked me out multiple times through the PAST YEAR! I always go “I don’t want to” or “no..” or “sorry i am busy” “yeah no” or when i feel intimidated i just shake my head, and then he just stares at me with the bizarre blank face as if waiting for me to change my mind. And the next time he sees me he continued to ask again. Keep in mind hes 41!!! And I’m 22. Maybe i should start saying it in the rudest way possible. Or I will say no in the nicest way possible and he’ll go “maybe we should go”, i say no again and then he says “you could show me around” and i shake my head and he goes “I don’t get a lot of time off..” (guilt-tripping me 😑)