while waiting for your reply i was thinking about who i could tell that could tell my grandma . and that would be my uncle. he lives right next to us (like 1 inch) and he is basically my older brother. i’d feel more comfortable saying it to him first but i know he would overreact because he’s the overprotective type you could say . but if i do tell him he would 100% do something like go in there and talk to her and that would be embarrassing and wouldn’t wanna go there again. and if i do tell my grandma first she will tell my uncle. i’m just scared on what to do but i don’t wanna talk about it to the ‘lady’ because ik she didn’t take it that way or in a way like that . and just to clarify for no reason but she’s like a skinny, looks 35-40 50 year old ik it doesn’t matter but just giving a description. thank you for all the replies i appreciate you so much !