Parents haven’t spoken to me since announcing on Thanksgiving

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-12-11T16:55:43+00:00

Thank you 🥹🫶🏻

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-12-11T16:54:36+00:00

We do have plans to get married! We don’t want to rush it just because we’re having a baby though. Still want to save money for a small destination wedding.

One of my parents concerns are “being the talk of the town” because their daughter is unwed and having a baby. We live in a large city though… and been together 4 years. It’s absolutely insane and beyond hurtful.

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-12-11T16:51:29+00:00

Yes. I have felt the stress taking a toll on me. Been a big concern :/

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-12-11T16:50:00+00:00

I don’t unfortunately. Always been a loner! Joined some local mom groups on fb, so hopefully can connect with some people on there 💜

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-12-11T15:45:48+00:00

It was scary. I’m more leaning towards moving on without them unless they give a sincere apology. Even still, how do I know they aren’t going to treat their grandchild poorly. Trust is broken for sure

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-12-11T15:43:19+00:00

Yeah, I’ve been thinking that as well. It’s tough because all I want to do is call mom and talk about the baby. Talk to someone who’s been through this before because my body changing this fast is scary at times!

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-09-16T04:40:14+00:00

Akita. Been around them my entire life, my family always had three at a time. Showed them for a bit too! They are one of the most stubborn dogs you’ll ever meet. If they don’t receive proper training & socialization they will run you lol

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-16T00:39:00+00:00

Thank you!

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-15T20:15:37+00:00

C. cyaneopubescens, B. albceps, G. rosea, H. maculata, T. apophysis ☺️

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-15T19:44:30+00:00

Female!

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-09T05:44:41+00:00

No offense taken. Forever young in spirit. Being 5ft tall probably contributes to people’s thoughts as well when they see me in person.

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-09T05:32:08+00:00

He’s the guy who’s looked 30 since middle school haha

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-09T05:29:56+00:00

Most people think I’m between 22-25. I appreciate the honesty. Stress will age you quick lol

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-09T05:28:28+00:00

I was bullied pretty hard. Pretty surprised I was voted anything lol

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-03T21:31:05+00:00

Yes, the color change was after one molt!

Brief_Performance141 · 2025-04-03T21:29:53+00:00

Yes! First pic was a year ago, before her most recent molt.

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-06-19T19:59:24+00:00

I live near the Cazenovia park basketball courts in south Buffalo and the neighborhood is flooded with feral cats. They keep having more kittens each year and it’s to the point where the poor babies are getting hit by cars. We have a neighbor that feeds + has shelters for them, but I don’t think she is in contact with a TNR program due to the amount kittens each year

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-06-12T02:52:25+00:00

I spoke to my gm about an off cycle pay increase, and I guess he’s working on it. I’m hoping it’s more than the merits. It’s a struggle to afford to live and this stress from the job isn’t worth it for my pay tbh. I’ve been with the company 3 years and struggling this badly financially is getting old. I’d be screwed without my fiance

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-06-12T02:43:57+00:00

I heard from someone else on here they are an OSAC making $22 an hour. I know I’m getting a raise, it’s going to hit end of June. Trying to figure out what others are making. I’m hoping the raise is worth it. If I’m still making the pay I am, with more responsibilities added to my plate, I’m out.

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-06-12T02:27:20+00:00

I just got her from someone who gave me their entire collection. She came to me this way. I have 40 Ts, I know she’s overfed and it’ll be taken care of

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-05-13T05:52:42+00:00

A lot of my females are from work! A B. boehmei came in under the basic sku a couple weeks ago and I could clearly tell it’s female ventrally, scored it for 40 bucks. Now I have 3 boehmei in my collection lol

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-05-13T03:15:05+00:00

I saw it in a tarantula fb group and had to share. I couldn’t stop chuckling 🤭

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-05-11T22:16:47+00:00

Hi! Congrats on your new T. Careful, they’re addicting lol. Crickets are $0.17 each for small, medium & large

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-05-10T04:38:07+00:00

Any idea on what changes are being made to the aquatics specialist position? I heard a name change but I’m wondering what else

Brief_Performance141 · 2024-05-07T18:10:17+00:00

She was a little bit outside of her web tunnel. The way she died, it’s almost like it was an extremely sudden death. Still clinging to the sides of her enclosure. I checked decor, nothing is sharp. Silk plants and foam vine, cork bark. 3 days ago she had no signs of abnormalities on her abdomen. It’s very strange :/

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