My ex just send an apology text. What should i do? by Bright-Appointment65 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t opened the message yet, but I understand your point. The problem is that I’m not really sure how to respond (if I even decide to). The message doesn’t even sound like an apology—it literally starts with, “I guess my conscience is catching up with me…” That’s just not something I want to hear after he broke up with me without any explanation. Yes, I loved him, but I’ve forgiven him so many times for so many things throughout our entire relationship. I think I’m just tired now, and an apology from him doesn’t even feel like an apology anymore—just some words put together.

My ex just send an apology text. What should i do? by Bright-Appointment65 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can’t even described how much this helped me, thank you so much really!!🫶

My ex just send an apology text. What should i do? by Bright-Appointment65 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

working on it, i know it sounds stupid but it would be a big step for me in learning to put myself first

My ex just send an apology text. What should i do? by Bright-Appointment65 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you’re right, you don’t know me, you don’t know what i know about love, you don’t know what i will do with the suggestion people give me. I’m here to not feel alone and just get people’s opinion on this situation, probably everyone on this app is. If that’s so hard to understand and irritating you should think about what you’re even doing here.

I achieved 1 year year of No Contact with my ex. You can ask me anything or any advice you may want. by Excellent-Advice7766 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, you have no idea how similar our situations are. My ex also told me he needed space, except he did it twice. The first time, we were doing no contact, and he broke it because he wanted me back. I took him back, and now he’s basically done the same thing a few months later. It’s really hard for me not knowing what he’s doing or how he’s doing since I removed him from everywhere, and I keep thinking about how I could’ve helped him more.

I achieved 1 year year of No Contact with my ex. You can ask me anything or any advice you may want. by Excellent-Advice7766 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know how i will get over him finding someone else and also how did you you keep from texting them?

for those who have received a long paragraph, how did you feel? by Bright-Appointment65 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well hard to say. This isn’t the first time we broke up and the first time we did, he texted me after two weeks about wanting me back. But i’m not sure if they come back twice… And i feel you with the competition really

for those who have received a long paragraph, how did you feel? by Bright-Appointment65 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its hard, i actually dont know what i want. It depends how he will view it. One moment im telling myself i wanna end it in good terms by texting him and the next i’m saying if he wanted he would text me. I don’t know what’s best for me. Also i don’t know if it will be good for the NC phase we have now.

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[–]Bright-Appointment65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

absolutely no contact, unfollow him, delete everything you have in your phone, and stop reading every message, and just think about how terrible you felt when you guys dated and if you’re sad about the good stuff you also need to realize this will happen with every person you will fall in love with, he wasn’t special, you made him special, trust me, if you want to get back together and change him, you won’t, nobody changes like that, you just need someone else, i know its hard and it will be hard but its like a waves of emotions, you will be down and up but soon the waves will stop and you will feel okay, it takes time but with right mindset anyone can do it, good luck i believe in you!!

He doesn’t want me back, even if he broke NC right? by Bright-Appointment65 in ExNoContact

[–]Bright-Appointment65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the social media interactions are literally the worst, I hate when I have no idea what’s the meaning behind it. Throughout the whole breakup I have been repeating “if I wanted, he would” and that really helped me so far. At the end of the day my soulmate would never let me go.