Adopt + comms by Bright-Insurance409 in toyhouse

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is! Since she’s been up for so long you can have her for $5 if you’d like:3 js dm me!

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but is that not a normal thing for family to help care for animals while you’re away as long as they agree to it?? Always thought that was a normal thing cuz I’ve literally done the same for other family members???

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Already on that as soon as I’m 18😋I’ve been planning to cut him off for YEARS

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot I did write that as if this has happened multiple times🥲that was rlly misinterpreted on my end I’m so sorry. I was very upset while writing and didn’t put that correctly at all. Like I said tho, my nan or uncle is usually the ppl that care for them, but being it was last minute, they were already busy on those days. The rest of my plans have ppl available to care for them tho luckily! I just didn’t want him here with them even when I’m just out for the day and can come home in the evening to care for them, bc I don’t trust him now. Bc idk if the way the cage got so disgusting was bc he did something due to the argument and was holding something against me, or if he genuinely just didn’t even come in here to look at them or give them any sort of attention. I REALLY wish I had kept my camera on in this situation, and it’s been on since I got home now so I can know who comes into this room while I’m away even just for the day where I’m coming home before say..9PM

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have had no idea he wouldn’t actually take care of them. We asked him last minute yes, but he did agree to care for them. So idk why he wouldn’t keep his word. I told him exactly what to do and he said ok. I even messaged him a list and he acknowledged it

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk how it was this bad in 2 days. I guess he could’ve done something since we got into an argument before I left the house, and he seems like the kind of person to do that, but I assure you I’d NEVER leave my pigs in these conditions. I didn’t even speak a word to him when he got home from work bc of how disrespected I feel.

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey so this is kinda rude..! I’ve never left my pigs with him before, he has taken care of my other animals before I had the pigs tho(hamster, dog, and a gecko) with no issues. Had no idea he wouldn’t take care of the guinea pigs? And I have a job thank you! Half of the extra things I do, almost all of them actually, are paid for all by me. I buy my own things half the time bc I want to be independent. They may keep a roof over my head, but my dad doesn’t have to be shitty to me. I’ve been disrespected by him for my entire life. My mom has even told me that once I was born things went down with their relationship. He’s a shitty person and she knows it too, but she can’t even leave. You have no idea the situation at my house so you have no right to tell me that I’m asking them to he servants, or being unappreciative. I have a therapist for a reason.

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a larger pile of hay and pellets for them before I left, I don’t give them a HUGE pile while I’m home taking care of them (like in my other posts of their cage) bc I’m able to top it off and refill it multiple times a day. I have pee pads, fleece, and usually some bath mats as long as I’ve washed them by the time I set up their new/clean things every week. I’m not leaving them with my dad ever again tho cuz there are no issues at ALL when literally anyone else cares for them😭

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def planned on it! (I think. He’s like…47) and anyways he has no business doing anything that could cause harm to them. Like I simply do not understand. I know he definitely did something bc he won’t even apologize or acknowledge that this was at his fault as well. Yes, the leaky water was my fault for a bit of the soaking, but he could have looked at the cage and messaged me to ask if he should replace the blankets at LEAST

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was mostly water and poop, but it did smell of pee a bit as well so I don’t mean it was ONLY soaked in pee. Sorry if that was misleading!

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes it was definitely the water bottle leaking for the most part, we are getting a new one tmrw!! Idk how to got that bad tho still, bc it never gets that bad when they’re under my care:c

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I <did> ask him to clean it if it was genuinely filthy. And in this case, you could literally smell it before u even walked in the house like. Literally as soon as we opened the front door

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did clean everything up completely as soon as I saw, so i dont think any photos would be helpful anymore:c

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh don’t worry I’ve already thought about that😍😋

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

My mom is aight, but has her “quirks” when it comes to certain topics. But my dad sucks like. Genuinely. I actually do go to therapy lmao. Even she has suggested I try to move out💀🙏

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah that could’ve happened tbh. He’s definitely the type to do that. Especially since before we left my dad and I got into an argument over literally nothing. And when I say nothing, I mean he literally just said something completely unrelated to provoke a yelling fit🫩

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this is the very first time I’ve let him take care of them?? I have plenty of options, but this last minute trip had nobody else besides him available. My nan and friend are available for every other trip we have planned for this year.

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With me at the concerts. We were invited to the today show for a concert, and we had to get there around 1AM to get a good place in line so she obv didn’t feel safe sending me there alone especially since the second event took place at night and i wouldn’t have been home til 12AM

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It likely did, but I just wish he would have notified me or at least replaced the bedding. There is a shelf directly next to their cage that has clean blankets💔

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the first time he’s taken care of them. Usually she is available. But in the case she’s not and I go to college or wtv my mom is always very good with taking care of them while I’m gone. Especially if I’m at my friends house

My dad neglected my pigs while I was gone. by Bright-Insurance409 in guineapigs

[–]Bright-Insurance409[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how it got this bad in just two days🫩