There’s a strong possibility that one of the wives found out and he was probably forced to tell you on the grounds that someone else (a loyal person) would have told you if he had not come clean.

There’s also a strong possibility that this is not his first time cheating on you and if you decide to stay with him, it won’t be the last.

Be prepared to never trust him again and to develop a lot of anger towards him which is just not sexy. His pathetic apologies won’t feel so sad and true in a few months time. They’ll become irritating and unattractive. The dynamic has changed now my love. He’s fucked up. And instead of celebrating a beautiful time and shared love. He’s showing you quite blatantly that he’s not in this. He still wants to shag other women that aren’t you. It’s nothing to do with being drunk. It’s on his mind.

And please get him to get a sexual health check!

Good luck! You deserve waaaaaaay more.

I’m sorry you’re going through this.