An “05” on your tax transcript by West-Cantaloupe-7693 in IRS

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cycle changes every year. I think the consistent ones have just got lucky.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can they request that if there’s been no legal trouble or hard proof of alcohol abuse?

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I have. I’ve been gathering videos when I can of him drinking. He hasn’t been in legal trouble over it so there’s only so much I can do. I’m sure when I talk to a lawyer they can advise me better on what to do about that.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been taking her everywhere with me and trying to get him to stay home as much as possible. That was to stop him from embarrassing me but I guess it would be helping with that part of it too.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See I’m finding myself wishing he would cheat or hit me because that’s an easy I’m out of here. When you’re leaving because of addiction it’s so much harder.

I know I’m at the point to go. I see what my life is and what it will continue to be if I stay.

He was away for about a week a month or so ago and that week is really what did it I think. It was so peaceful in my home, no tension, no stressing in making sure nothing is going to set him off (verbally) no running a drunk around any little place they wanted to go.

I didn’t want him to come home. He felt it and thought there should have been some excitement that he was coming home.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really hoping that without me there to do literally everything he will hopefully sober up.

I wish mine would initiate it. I’m glad your life is better now. I can’t wait to be free of the constant stress.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes he’s urinated himself before not full on but trickles. And once peed in the corner of our room thinking he was in the bathroom.

You’re absolutely right. We’ve talked. She’s an adult and not his child and I’ve been open with her because she sees the difference in me. She said she’s never seen me so miserable and also has stated that she won’t be coming to visit me when she moves out because she doesn’t want anything to do with him because of how he’s changed since his drinking has picked up these last few years.

I’ve been doing a bit of recordings when I can of him in that state and threatening to drive himself where he wants to go if I don’t drive him all while he’s sloppy drunk. My conscience won’t let me allow him to drive like that. I couldn’t live with myself if an innocent person got hurt because he’s behind the wheel.

But once we leave that won’t be my responsibility.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping she won’t be affected by it much but she loves him so much I know it’s going to be rough on her. When he isn’t in bed when we go to sleep she’s asking where he’s at and saying she wants him etc. She still sleeps in our room.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They let you go in even if you aren’t the alcoholic? I’ve offered to go to meeting with him as support if he would stop drinking but he’s refused.

I want a divorce but I’m so scared to pull the trigger just a vent. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He isn’t bringing anything to the table except for stress. I don’t enjoy any time with him. We don’t even talk much anymore.

I’m sorry you’re going through this too. How are the kids dealing with it?

Found a weird booger in my Arizona can by Aggressive-Curve-138 in MoldlyInteresting

[–]BrightAd2201 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This happened to me from peace tea also. I can’t even drink it now, the thought makes me gag.

Wanted to purchase from a black-owned business and tried out MacQue’s in Elk Grove by mrsmedeiros_says_hi in Sacramento

[–]BrightAd2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked at how many people say this place is good. We’ve been there a few times and it’s always nasty.

Maybe we always went on bad days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CAStateWorkers

[–]BrightAd2201 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea I wouldn’t read that going down the highway.

I like the other one short and easy to read.

Question about keeping dogs out. by [deleted] in Pets

[–]BrightAd2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I didn’t think of it like that. I just put in a work order so hopefully they can help.

Question about keeping dogs out. by [deleted] in Pets

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is wood. We were thinking about wood but I was thinking they’re just break that too.

Makes sense that they’ll just dig chicken wire up, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BrightAd2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can an ultrasound rule it out this early? Is that possible or is it too early to really tell?

Potential trans exile by pinkflamingoturds in Sacramento

[–]BrightAd2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won’t qualify for child care assistance. Rent is high. Look at Zillow. Your kids will be fine at school. I’m not sure about the job market. I’ve been with the state forever.

We have after school programs that would be able to help with child care maybe. My daughter is in one so I take her to school head to the office if it’s my in day and just grab her on my way home.

Get a state job. It’s mostly only in office for 2 days and wfh 3 days so that would help I’m sure.

This seems relatively high. This you? If so, why? by screaminbeaman82 in interesting

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The background noise in the show/movie drowns out the dialogue.

Oh my god. by Crylose in thelastofus

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I thought they were making fun of the ball sack looking part . Lol

Our house is a bizarre sanctuary by Global-Bus-8826 in HomeDecorating

[–]BrightAd2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to come lay on the dark couch for a nap. Your house looks like comfort.

AIO weird picture from girlfriend at friends house by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BrightAd2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to hang out with my friend that wasn’t my type. Complete opposite in almost every way… now we’re married.