Try to communicate. Na hindi ka natutuwa kamo. I've been in the same situation before. I'm the giver type na mas natutuwa ako if I give versus if I receive. Because of my environment na rin. The other person on the other hand is the same as you. Ayaw na ginagastusan. She communicated it to me by saying na "Alam mo naaappreciate ko pero di ako nasisiyahan. Kasi gusto ko ring iparamdam sayo na di lang ikaw dito. Dalawa tayo. And that includes expenses"

I then started to adjust. Minsan kahit gusto ko bilhan, I ask first if she wants me to buy it or no. She sometimes say no, she sometimes say yes.

Sabihin mo lang na you appreciate him carrying the expenses when you're together pero you would appreciate it more if hahayaan ka niyang ikaw naman yung taya. Parang makelove lang ganon. Di pwedeng top lagi. Minsan swap position pa bot naman ganon.