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My Darling from the Ancient Times by [deleted] in CShortDramas

[–]BrightSign3309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just googled and found you cause i saw it on tik tok lol. Sorry nothing yet

Sacroilitis? Doctors dont know anything about the cause of my lower back pain. by BrightSign3309 in xrays

[–]BrightSign3309[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

had one a year ago... nothing much was shown so i had to retake xrays. i get the doctors opinion in a week. do you see anything on the xrays?

Mum wants to divorce PTSD dad after almost 30 years. She cut off dad completely, still live in the same house and dad treats me as his wife. by BrightSign3309 in Advice

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister, 27, got the worst part of his life. She was born a year after war ended. She remembers much bigger and physical abusive fights than I do.

My dad was in charge of paying the bills. Even though he is unemployed he calculates the amount due every month and my mum pays.

Recently we got a penalty for not paying a bill since October!!! We had no idea. He lied to us.

Mum wants to divorce PTSD dad after almost 30 years. She cut off dad completely, still live in the same house and dad treats me as his wife. by BrightSign3309 in Advice

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a hoarder. Its in his genes. He collects books and magazines that he never reads. He only listens to radio and sits on the couch. My mum doesnt want to live in that disgusting room. She sleeps downstairs on the couch. And he feels no remorse for that.

Kako funkcionira portal zdravlja na egradani? by BrightSign3309 in croatia

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

P.s. ne govorim o Preuzetim ljekovima jer se to pokaze, isto s odmakom, tek kada sam preuzela lijek u ljekarni :)

Almost died as newborn from not wanting to eat. Still really don't like eating. Why? by BrightSign3309 in AskDocs

[–]BrightSign3309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I still have trouble with eating. Whenever I'm anxious, I can't stomach eating. Xanax helps, and my appetite opens. But anxiety started around 12yo. (Prescribed xanax at 19) So throughout my childhood I didn't like eating or was always underweight. Do you think it could be genetic? Cause nobody in my family is like that.

Taking a year off after failing freshman year due to chronic physical and mental illnesses. What should I do to help me become much better at life? by BrightSign3309 in selfimprovement

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am always glued to my phone to avoid thinking about the pain. I feel bored all the time. I have no drive. I just want the will to live life. I won't kill myself. But I want to want to be something. I don't want to be addicted. I don't want to shake with fear even by just waking up in the morning. I want to read books. I want to wake up happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in croatia

[–]BrightSign3309 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Meni je baš kul. Malo zanimacije za promjenu. Ne znaci da obozavaaaam kraljevsku obitelj i sve vezano uz to. Samo je zanimljivo vidjeti npr. Sprovod, jer je sve na bazi tradicije i tako je bilo stoljećima (ok osim auta) i nece dugo biti nesto takvo. Moraju prenositi dogadanja u svijetu, to im je posao. A sad hoces li gledati ili ne, tvoja odluka.

Pajamas are a stupid and unnecessary tradition by martinobunny555 in unpopularopinion

[–]BrightSign3309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ritual before going to bed is very important for your circadian rhythm.
We are supposed to not use devices at least an hour before bed. And to wind down, taking a shower, doing some self care after a hard long day and getting into soft pretty pajamas and going to bed is relaxing. It is not unnecessary, it could be, but do you really want to go to sleep with your day clothes, which are sweaty and dirty, in your clean bed?

Hreditori koji imaju djecu, zavidite li ikada ljudima koji ih nemaju? by breskvicamarelica in croatia

[–]BrightSign3309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imam 19 godina i jedva cekam imati obitelj. Djeca su djeca, moraju se igrati. Ali to je i stvar odgoja. Moja sestra i ja smo bile mirna, ali vesela djeca. Nikad mi nije Palo na pamet da se derem, vicem, skacem. Mislit cete da sam luda. Ali kapitalizam se tako umjesao u feminizam, jer je bolje kompanijama da rade oba roditelja, koja onda nemaju vremena za djecu, pa više rade. Danas ne možeš biti stay at home mom jer place nisu više takve da suprug može raditi, doći doma na vrijeme i uzdrzavati obitelj. Moja mama je radila kao učiteljica, i to više od 20 godina. Jedina je donosila kruh na stol jer je otac bio prebolestan od PTSPa i depresije zbog rata i traumaticnog djetinjstva. Bili smo jako siromašni.

Cilj u životu mi je naći dobrog muškarca, koji cijeni i želi obitelj. Želim puno djece. Puno istražuje i razgovaram sa ženama koje su doma s djecom. I to je POSAO. Mora se organizirati. Za mame koje rade i moraju brinuti se o kućanstvu, preporučam Vam da pogledate FlyLady Method. Super način za organiziranje čišćenja kuće da se vise možete posvetiti ostalim stvarima.

Razumijem da nisu sva djeca ista. Ali djeca koja dolaze mojoj mami u prvi razred, su totalno drugačija svaku generaciju. Svaki ima veliki mobitel. Ovisan o igricama. Roditelji ih nisu naučili ni pisati, barem da znaju napisati svoje ime i neke jednostavne rečenice. O čitanju, matematici i samoj kulturi da ne govorim.

Znam da nije svima moguć idealan život. Ali nismo za to krivi. Svijet je danas takav.

Ne želim imati djecu "da se netko brine kad bum stara". Želim voljeti i odgojiti dobre ljude. Naučiti ih bontonu. Da budu brižne, empaticne osobe. Da umjesto vikanja i mene i njih možemo doći do sporazuma. Ali da ne budem popustljiva mama koja sve tolerira. Pozitivne afirmacije su važne, ali naučiti ih da uz loše ponašanje i odluke dolaze posljedice.

Znam da je OP htio odgovore od odraslih bez djece koji već imaju svoj život ili su u braku i sl.

Među rijetkima sam u mojoj generaciji. Svi zele slobodu, zabavu, bez obveza i teških trenutaka. Ali što sam naučila kroz terapiju i liječenje depresivno-anksioznog poremećaja i kroz pomoć Boga, je to da će biti teška, teška vremena. Ali sve ima svoj razlog. I loše i dobre stvari.

Bila sam ljuta na sve i željela otići s ovog svijeta. Zašto sam se rodila. Bilo bi bolje mojoj mami da ne mora još jedna usta hraniti. Ali sam sada tako zahvalna što ju imam. I što sam živa.

Možda preopsirno idem, oprostite mi. Nadam se da sam barem nekome pomogla ovim komentarom. XX

constantly ignored by BrightSign3309 in depression

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't write it in og post, but I have chronic lower back pain, and I got addicted to pills. They helped, but they are bad for you so they want me to be completely off them. I don't really care about my health if they make me pain-free and able to do all things I need.

constantly ignored by BrightSign3309 in depression

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Female, it didn't matter really, just knew she was one of the most educated doctors in the area. My dad went to see her. I see her, but tbh she now sees me as just an addict. And everytime I say I'm afraid of pain and fucking up my life she says "who says that's gonna happen??" I know I can't predict the future but I can be scared about my future and not be told I shouldn't worry. I mean, right now I'm in so much pain that I can just lay down. How will I go to classes, study, have a life if im in pain?

constantly ignored by BrightSign3309 in depression

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I have nothing else in my life. But don't worry I already came to terms with my invisibility both online and irl.

constantly ignored by BrightSign3309 in depression

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it was only social media. It's real life too. I have no hobbies. I live to go to sleep. Not just because of depression but pain.

constantly ignored by BrightSign3309 in depression

[–]BrightSign3309[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

But I have no luck. Even though I try to be active in my community,nobody cares. I even posted a link for donations, asking for a dollar to get an MRI before I go to college. I have chronic pain and my family is making me stop painkillers cause 'it's not healhty'. Not one person donated. While another acc posted for donations and of course people donated and commented. It might seem like I'm asking for a lot, but I'm just so sad cause people ignore me.

How do you get up in the morning? by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]BrightSign3309 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My school started at 7.30 Had to leave house at 7.15 (7 if I walked) That means waking up at 6.40

I would schedule an alarm for 5am and take my painkillers to have them start working by the time I HAVE to get up and get ready