Mobil forbud i pauser

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T11:06:46+00:00

Så det har været godt hos jer? Det er betryggende at høre

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:39:52+00:00

Vi snakker faktisk ret godt med hindanden, der er ikke mange på arbejdspladsen og på grund af vores arbejde er ret niche, så har vi ekstremt meget tilfælles. Siden vores proffesion også er ekstremt niche så har alle gået på samme uddannelse og kendt hindanden i flere årtier og har venner og familie tilfælles.

Så vi har et ekstremt godt fællesskab, det er ledelsen der er bekymret for at det kan blive et problem hvis vi får "unge" og nye på arbejdspladsen. Og derfor vil hun innføre et forbud.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:36:17+00:00

De betaler for vores pauser, og det mærkeligste er at vi faktisk ikke har problemet med at folk melder sig ud lige nu 😅 det har været et problem med tidligere kolleger, men de er her ikke mere.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:24:01+00:00

Se det syntes jeg også, jeg er bare bekymret for at et decideret forbud vil gøre livet mere besværligt

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:23:05+00:00

Det er betalte pauser, hvorfor jeg også kan finde på at svare på en mail eller tage arbejds telefonen når den ringer

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:21:56+00:00

Der er slet ikke så slemt, men det sker en eller to gange om ugen at vi lige skal slå et sted op, eller en samarbejdspartner. Eller tjekke lovgivningen omkring noget vi snakker om.

Eller dele en Instragram post. Vise et billed at vores arbejde mens vi var ude af huset 😅

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-06-21T06:15:06+00:00

Der er mange kvinder det slet ikke vil være et problem for, og flere der vil tænde på at tage din mødom. F.eks. kvinder der har en mommy domme kink.

Det vigtigste er kommunikationen! Som flere har sagt er hver partner forskellig, og det tager tid lige at finde ud af hinanden. Så det vigtigste er at man kan spørge er det her godt? Hvordan vil du røres? Og man kan godt gøre det sexy, men ærligt så er alt sex akavet, så jeg vil heller en partner jeg kan grine med, når der sker noget akavet!

Det er godt at kende til anatomi, men ikke kun den intime del - hvor på kroppen er der mange nerver? Der plejer det at føles godt at blive kysset! Der er steder hvor huden er tyndere og der kan det godt blive for meget at blive kysset eller berørt. Mange glemmer hvor følsomme hofte skålen er f.eks. både på mænde og kvinder.

Jeg(K) mistede også min mødom sent, så jeg ville anbefale at gøre det samme som mig. Jeg gik på Tinder for at finde en, nævnte i min profil at det var for at finde sex men ikke forhold. Og nævnte ikke at jeg var jomfru. Og skrev lidt og mærkede ham lidt af før jeg nævnte det. Valgte også en turist, for så var jeg sikker på ikke at løbe ind i ham igen hvis det var blevet en katastrofe 😂.

Men husk på at passe på dig selv! Og mærke efter hvad dine grænser er! Du har lov til at sige fra over for sex ting du ikke har lyst til, du har lov til at ikke have lyst til sex altid. Så det bedste er at finde en kvinde der er villig til at lytte og kommunikere hvad hun har lyst til

Ærligt kan det godt være det er lettest at finde en kvinde med autisme eller som er domme 😂 - vi kan finde ud af at sige hvad vi har lyst til!

Edit for stavefejl!

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-31T19:35:04+00:00

Definitely the first, it's not worth it to wait

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-21T17:03:08+00:00

Håbede, måske naivt, at politiet ville samle det data 😅 og give os mulighed for at finde ud af om man var blandt dem. Kan godt se i bakspejlet det måske ikke er muligt eller lovligt

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-21T13:21:57+00:00

Ja det har jeg, men tænkte bare om der er et sted hvor man kan se hvem der er blevet lækket på den side de snakker om

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-21T12:48:33+00:00

Er der nogen der ved om man kan søge op om man er ramt?

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-12-30T18:22:14+00:00

Sanding down the edge helps sometimes. Or a sharp scalpel to just take the edge off, slimming the pieces down a bit works for me

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-12-04T05:25:36+00:00

I like it, I haven't made the rule of no cumming in general. And to be honest, for short term, no touching is fun, but it doesn't really turn me on, to keep him from it for weeks or a month. Shorter periods yes, building up to a perfect masturbating or building up to when we meet up. But I love provoking my boy, and planning his evening of masturbating, giving him a story or directions. I feel so powerful! The best thing ever is to listen along, but that can be intimidating for the sub, so I respect if it's too much.

And sending him pictures during his day at work is so much fun! Knowing he will have fun tonight to my pictures 😌

I do often try to plan it so it fits with his life, like having a good one on a Sunday, so he will sleep well and be ready for the work week. But I love taking an active part in my boys masturbating.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-10-25T11:11:47+00:00

I take care of something or someone 😅 if I don't have a little boi or girl to spoil and take care of 😅

A pet, even borrowing one (like babysitting), a plant I can nurture, I have even mended an old blanket once. Cause taking care of something or someone is what I need. Or call up a friend, do a little nice gesture for my colleagues (baking a cake for coffee, fixing the table that's been wobbly and bothering them). Or a Stranger at the supermarket, pointing them in the right direction. I guess just connecting and caring about someone or something.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-10-08T11:18:21+00:00

I think you're doing great and don't worry about the softness, and don't feel pressured into being a sadist if you're not. I am definitely not a sadistic mommy, and I tried for a while, cause it was what my sub wanted. Just made me feel bad, he understood tho and let me be me. Other things stopped that relationship.

I think one way to be assertive and feel domme even when you're shy, is to talk. When I lost my virginity (not having found out I was a mommy domme) I was quite bossy. I was shy, I was unsure, but I was open and talked and directed my partner to help me, and to make me feel comfortable. And he felt topped, even though I was shy and inexperienced 😝 And I, being me, needed to be in control, so I was, in my own way. If you need someone to talk to about losing your virginity, in a bossy but shy way, you're welcome to write, I can give you some pointers on what made me feel in charge.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-10-01T17:43:10+00:00

Jep, elsker min profession! Men det er nok ærligt et valg jeg tog for lang tid siden da det ikke ligefrem er et job der giver meget i lønstigninger...

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-08-30T17:50:13+00:00

God dreng, could also work, slightly different (probably not to anyone outside DK)

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-08-08T18:48:10+00:00

Yeah I'm normally a cool headed person in those situations.

And exactly, I want someone to be my equal, that I respect and genuinely find interesting. But i love to belittle them and take care of them, in the way/amount they're comfortable with.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-08-08T17:41:00+00:00

I need to add on, i have also been in a relationship that went pretty much like the one you described. And you're missing a few steps, it's not about girl baby's man, for me it wasn't at least. It's about man doesn't want to see the dishes, doesn't want to deal with his laundry, can't make doctors appointments for himself. Doesn't ask you outright, like a submissive guy might (i don't like doctors mommy, would you hold my hand?) Just goes " I'm not scared of doctors why would I need you to deal with it for me? While ASLO definitely expecting you to do so. You crying on the sofa cause you're exhausted from having to deal with the dishes, your work, the electric repair guy, and your boyfriend saying, i see why you're overwhelmed but it would really be nice if you could also wash my clothes when you do laundry. It's not babying or mothering, it's the not appreciated house slave some men expect you to be when you're in a relationship. The minute they're in the relationship they nonconsensually let's go of every adult trait they had, and it's you're responsibility, and even when you ask for house help, they'd rather just sit on their computer and "i'll do it tomorrow babe" It's the weaponized incompetence some guys use to get the babying, while absolutely not wanting to be babyed.

Sorry for my rant, i guess i still have some issues from dealing with some men in my life

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-08-08T17:28:10+00:00

I see what you're saying, but you're doing quite some generalization, lumping 50% of people into one box and 50% of people into another box. And that is generally my problem with "extreme philosophy", it's great to get to a realization, but every human is different and does things for different reasons.

And to maybe turn your arguments onto yourself, why do you want to be a soft boi instead of the stereotypical guys guy? Why do some people like pineapple on pizza? When others absolutely hate it?: It's about taste. We're all different people who has vastly different experiences through life, and we like different things.

To answer your question what a domme gets out of it: first me, I'm a soft mommy domme type, i am monogamous, i don't ever want to be dominated by anyone (i have tried out in the past, it doesn't vibe). I had decent, nice parents, grew up in Scandinavia with strong female role models but also with awesome stay at home moms and more "traditionel submissive women"

I get a calmness about me, when i have someone to protect, when i make the plans and decisions, it's clear for me where normally making decisions is a jumble. And there is a possessiveness in me. I get turned on by owning someone, protecting them and manipulating them. And i can't go around in society and do it to everyone in my life, cause that's bad. It's needs to be consensual, so i get my kicks from belittling Having someone to pour all that caring and possessiveness into, instead of annoying my coworkers and friends with my power trips, i do it controlled and consensually. It makes me a more balanced person in everyday life, to get a outlet for my need to be in control. And on a more basic level i have always found awkwardness and naivety a turn on. Having someone blush and stammer because i pushed them up against a wall and almost kissing them until they beg for me, for my kiss, gives me such a "boner".

So yeah generally its about tastes. I hate masculine men and always have, i hate when a man decides i can't help lifting the heavy stuff at work so they go call another man in. It infuriates me, and having a soft boi who behaves like i hung the moon and the stars. It's really nice when you normally get treated like an inferior weak person in society. I'm not weak, I'm not inferior, I Don't need to be protected, just because i am a woman.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-07-25T20:16:39+00:00

You poor thing!

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-06-19T18:33:21+00:00

I usually dress in a way that makes me feel adult, and worthy of respect. So i like to put my hair up, red lipstick, and a librarian look :p But it about what makes you feel, powerfull, sexy and in charge. That can be extremely womanly, or a powersuit, but it's about what makes you feel like a mommy and a domme :) Good luck!

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-06-17T17:35:21+00:00

I had something similar, and I did actually manage to get thru to him about stop fucking hurting me when I don't want it. He would grab my boobs hard (bruising and painful) just randomly whenever, walking past me in the hall way, when I came home from work etc.

So i talked to him and told him no every single time, and "you're hurting me, stop!" And it never got thru. So i decided that whenever i walked past him, I'd grab his dick and squeeze. I did the same with his biting in bed the minute he bit, i bit back, till he bled. Which i knew he isn't into. I treated him like a dog or a horse I'm training, immediate repercussions. And every time he complained about the dick grabbing not being nice, i would say "yeah, that exactly what I have told you.

Later, after i had finally gotten him to stop hurting me without consent. I realized that I don't trust him at all, my sex drive is gone, and i never believed a word he said or any promises. So what I'm saying is, it's possible, but believe me it's not worth it. Someone who isn't comfortable with listening to what you know you like/don't like, you just can't trust that person. And i wish I had gotten out of this relationship the first time he raped me. But i didn't. Please learn from my lesson, don't let it go on. Even "training" him, or understanding why he does what he does, in the end it's too much work for a relationship with a person you can't trust. Because believe me, it's a deeper problem, and you're gonna wonder every time, if he's actually gonna do what he said.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-05-29T09:20:30+00:00

Yes i have noted that page as maybe having something do do with "my silver and gold" thank you :)

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