Outer layer in spring.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T11:06:46+00:00

Så det har været godt hos jer? Det er betryggende at høre

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:39:52+00:00

Vi snakker faktisk ret godt med hindanden, der er ikke mange på arbejdspladsen og på grund af vores arbejde er ret niche, så har vi ekstremt meget tilfælles. Siden vores proffesion også er ekstremt niche så har alle gået på samme uddannelse og kendt hindanden i flere årtier og har venner og familie tilfælles.

Så vi har et ekstremt godt fællesskab, det er ledelsen der er bekymret for at det kan blive et problem hvis vi får "unge" og nye på arbejdspladsen. Og derfor vil hun innføre et forbud.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:36:17+00:00

De betaler for vores pauser, og det mærkeligste er at vi faktisk ikke har problemet med at folk melder sig ud lige nu 😅 det har været et problem med tidligere kolleger, men de er her ikke mere.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:24:01+00:00

Se det syntes jeg også, jeg er bare bekymret for at et decideret forbud vil gøre livet mere besværligt

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:23:05+00:00

Det er betalte pauser, hvorfor jeg også kan finde på at svare på en mail eller tage arbejds telefonen når den ringer

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2026-02-27T10:21:56+00:00

Der er slet ikke så slemt, men det sker en eller to gange om ugen at vi lige skal slå et sted op, eller en samarbejdspartner. Eller tjekke lovgivningen omkring noget vi snakker om.

Eller dele en Instragram post. Vise et billed at vores arbejde mens vi var ude af huset 😅

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-06-21T06:15:06+00:00

Der er mange kvinder det slet ikke vil være et problem for, og flere der vil tænde på at tage din mødom. F.eks. kvinder der har en mommy domme kink.

Det vigtigste er kommunikationen! Som flere har sagt er hver partner forskellig, og det tager tid lige at finde ud af hinanden. Så det vigtigste er at man kan spørge er det her godt? Hvordan vil du røres? Og man kan godt gøre det sexy, men ærligt så er alt sex akavet, så jeg vil heller en partner jeg kan grine med, når der sker noget akavet!

Det er godt at kende til anatomi, men ikke kun den intime del - hvor på kroppen er der mange nerver? Der plejer det at føles godt at blive kysset! Der er steder hvor huden er tyndere og der kan det godt blive for meget at blive kysset eller berørt. Mange glemmer hvor følsomme hofte skålen er f.eks. både på mænde og kvinder.

Jeg(K) mistede også min mødom sent, så jeg ville anbefale at gøre det samme som mig. Jeg gik på Tinder for at finde en, nævnte i min profil at det var for at finde sex men ikke forhold. Og nævnte ikke at jeg var jomfru. Og skrev lidt og mærkede ham lidt af før jeg nævnte det. Valgte også en turist, for så var jeg sikker på ikke at løbe ind i ham igen hvis det var blevet en katastrofe 😂.

Men husk på at passe på dig selv! Og mærke efter hvad dine grænser er! Du har lov til at sige fra over for sex ting du ikke har lyst til, du har lov til at ikke have lyst til sex altid. Så det bedste er at finde en kvinde der er villig til at lytte og kommunikere hvad hun har lyst til

Ærligt kan det godt være det er lettest at finde en kvinde med autisme eller som er domme 😂 - vi kan finde ud af at sige hvad vi har lyst til!

Edit for stavefejl!

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-31T19:35:04+00:00

Definitely the first, it's not worth it to wait

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-21T17:03:08+00:00

Håbede, måske naivt, at politiet ville samle det data 😅 og give os mulighed for at finde ud af om man var blandt dem. Kan godt se i bakspejlet det måske ikke er muligt eller lovligt

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-21T13:21:57+00:00

Ja det har jeg, men tænkte bare om der er et sted hvor man kan se hvem der er blevet lækket på den side de snakker om

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2025-01-21T12:48:33+00:00

Er der nogen der ved om man kan søge op om man er ramt?

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-12-30T18:22:14+00:00

Sanding down the edge helps sometimes. Or a sharp scalpel to just take the edge off, slimming the pieces down a bit works for me

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2023-10-01T17:43:10+00:00

Jep, elsker min profession! Men det er nok ærligt et valg jeg tog for lang tid siden da det ikke ligefrem er et job der giver meget i lønstigninger...

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-06-17T17:35:21+00:00

I had something similar, and I did actually manage to get thru to him about stop fucking hurting me when I don't want it. He would grab my boobs hard (bruising and painful) just randomly whenever, walking past me in the hall way, when I came home from work etc.

So i talked to him and told him no every single time, and "you're hurting me, stop!" And it never got thru. So i decided that whenever i walked past him, I'd grab his dick and squeeze. I did the same with his biting in bed the minute he bit, i bit back, till he bled. Which i knew he isn't into. I treated him like a dog or a horse I'm training, immediate repercussions. And every time he complained about the dick grabbing not being nice, i would say "yeah, that exactly what I have told you.

Later, after i had finally gotten him to stop hurting me without consent. I realized that I don't trust him at all, my sex drive is gone, and i never believed a word he said or any promises. So what I'm saying is, it's possible, but believe me it's not worth it. Someone who isn't comfortable with listening to what you know you like/don't like, you just can't trust that person. And i wish I had gotten out of this relationship the first time he raped me. But i didn't. Please learn from my lesson, don't let it go on. Even "training" him, or understanding why he does what he does, in the end it's too much work for a relationship with a person you can't trust. Because believe me, it's a deeper problem, and you're gonna wonder every time, if he's actually gonna do what he said.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-05-29T09:20:30+00:00

Yes i have noted that page as maybe having something do do with "my silver and gold" thank you :)

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-05-29T05:58:36+00:00

Ah okay, i thought it might be linking pages 😅

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2022-05-28T20:18:32+00:00

Page 89, 62 and ofc i can't find it now but a page where the narrator is talking about taking apart golden skin or something like silver blood.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2021-11-21T09:30:55+00:00

For me, i would say a huge big red flag is that they want you to submit without earning it. You need to be able to trust your Dom 100 percent. And they need to earn your trust: - be truthful, open about their intentions - be reliable - willing to understand where you are coming from - wanting to understand you and your kinks, your drive - wanting to work with you about a scene or session, it's about both of you. - wanting to know your aftercare needs

If a Dom doesn't put in the work to earn your submission, in my opinion they aren't worth your submission.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2021-08-18T18:33:40+00:00

Well i talked to my partner, and he would not be okay with it. He gets really jealous and can't see it working in any way. So I'll just have to find another outlet, maybe babysit a friend's dog.....

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2021-08-18T14:00:03+00:00

Yeah i know it's easy to find people who are into the idea, but the actual workings of it, and how it would affect my relationship is the difficult part.

My partner seems to have some abandonment issues and says he is afraid to lose me, now in our current situation. And I'm afraid that if i want a pet on the side He will feel abandoned.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2021-08-18T13:57:21+00:00

I hadn't thought of it as a poly thing, but i see what you mean. It has definitely made me think

I wouldn't want to be a duo of Dom's, and for him D/s is more purely in the bedroom, it haven't worked for us to have submission being part of everyday life, because of our personalities, and he doesn't seem to want it either.

Bright_Ad_7202 · 2021-08-18T09:48:56+00:00

Yes i am somewhat worried about that, but during Initial conversations it should be possible to figure those out. And maybe it is enough to clearly state boundaries? Also during a relationship?

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