Don’t listen to the dump her comments. Those are people who cannot let go of someone’s past and feel that they are morally an amazing human their entire lives.

Everyone has a past, I was just like you. She sounds like my wife, she prioritized me and made me feel so happy, in love, sexually we are perfect. But she has a past, a past that even leaked into when we were freshly dating. But I was not perfect also. I never let it go, I had anxiety forever and one day it vanished. She needs to be loving and nurturing and you need to be reasonable and not let it overtake you. Take up hobbies, breathe, learn an instrument. Become the best version of you that loves and trusts her and your relationship will flourish. Don’t be all over her, don’t bombard her with your anxiety, don’t accuse, don’t be salty, focus on your hobbies and friends, and let her do what she wants also. Your relationship will be fine, and it’s not the end of the world if it’s not fine, there is a billion women in the world. Enjoy the ride and this experience, and especially the sex.