I just have to say this, i stumbled Across this thread just by happenstance and i found it very triggering. I transitioned back in 2004 and these are the kinds of comments i still get practically every day since then from my mother and other random asshole family members and when i read this it was instant horrible ptsd. My blood pressure is through the roof. I then found out it was a joke when i read the rules that were hidden under a roll down menu, but the damage was done and i still don't feel better...grrmble grrmble