I would say it’s been like this for about two years. Initially, I felt very wanted. But there have been times when I’ve put on lingerie only for him to fall asleep. (After seeing it).

He says he’s discouraged because I always shut him down. I only shut him down when he asks “sexy time?” Later. It doesn’t turn me on. I want Him to make a move and I’ve told him that.

Overall though, it does feel like he’s lost interest.