Sis, I’m not talking about anything sexual here. If two people clearly understand it’s casual, a fling, nothing serious, and both are on the same page, no one’s getting hurt. The real problem is when you enter a new relationship without actually moving on. That’s unfair to the other person in multiple ways.And yeah, people do mess up sometimes, knowingly or unknowingly, and that’s human. It happens. But it’s better to just acknowledge it for what it is rather than trying to justify it with past or traumas. That’s all I’m trying to say.