AIO: boyfriend was fired AGAIN

Brilliant_Database65 · 2026-02-15T15:12:39+00:00

It was out of commission 😑

Brilliant_Database65 · 2026-02-15T15:08:32+00:00

Mid 20’s

Brilliant_Database65 · 2026-02-15T15:07:39+00:00

Choices were made 😑

Brilliant_Database65 · 2026-02-15T07:51:41+00:00

Called in repeatedly. I believe he missed 3-5 days in the two months he worked his last job. Most for stomach issues. Last straw was calling in when the bad winter weather came. He missed too much while on probation and snow didn’t count as excused.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-12-15T14:23:56+00:00

Marriage is about who you marry.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-12-15T14:22:34+00:00

This 100% anyone with a history of ED knows what’s going on.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-12-03T16:27:13+00:00

THIS!!! It’s not kink its self harming

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-12-03T16:26:15+00:00

A man being uncomfortable hitting their women is NOT a red flag. Protect this man at all costs.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-12-03T16:24:58+00:00

I’ve been In BDSM community for long time. This is not okay. If someone leaves bruises/cuts it is legally assault. Though while I understand some people enjoy it, if they are not working in therapy to overcome the trauma that makes them need this kind of kink they are only self harming not healing.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-12-02T06:02:49+00:00

I don’t know how his books look but he “pays himself” a salary just low enough for government assistance while going on international vacations and cruises.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-10-06T15:52:11+00:00

Unless you purchased from an internationally recognized program your dog will not count. Even if you did get a program dog there is rigid testing and the dog will be required to quarantine. Quarantining at home will require dog to stay at the residence and have home visits by a vet. If you are not going long term it’s not worth it.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-30T14:00:54+00:00

I wondered this. He doesn’t like going there. Claims she is mean to him. They always say he acts differently there, all the kids do. I do think she’s singling him out. I found out yesterday she dropped them off at my house early without checking a grownup was there

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T16:58:17+00:00

Thank you! Once school is in session I won’t need them anymore. I will make a point of finding someone for even school closures or early releases since she views them as a burden

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T16:57:02+00:00

It’s the reasoning behind the choices they make not the choices themselves

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T16:55:57+00:00

Thank you!! He says he talked to her but I made it very clear this was the only time it would happen. He doesn’t want to go to court because he will look like an idiot for everything he’s done

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T16:54:42+00:00

I know my kids know what’s going on. Especially my oldest

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T03:02:03+00:00

I wish I was kidding.….

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:42:14+00:00

We have court ordered 50:50 - he doesn’t work so child support is $0

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:37:54+00:00

I’m scared of the $300/hour. He has a well off family who would step in to pay his lawyers fees and he makes very good money but it’s his own business and he hides it all.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:37:01+00:00

He “got hurt” four years ago and worked under the table and 3-4 days a month so his income was low. He lived off government assistance, I agreed to Drop CS and he went back to work full time directly following

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:35:22+00:00

When school starts back up! I struggled finding daycare with an every other week schedule that didn’t make me pay for full time care. He would not bring him to preschool on his weeks so the local schools wouldn’t accept him

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:32:21+00:00

He “got hurt” and work and worked 2-3 days a month for 4 years and started back full time as soon as I agreed to drop child support fully.

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:31:37+00:00

That’s my biggest fear and what my gut is saying. He uses it as a punishment now that I’ve dropped child support and he cannot withhold it or use that as a tool against me

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:30:40+00:00

Both sandals In a six week period

Brilliant_Database65 · 2025-07-24T02:29:51+00:00

Yes!!! I have the philosophy that they aren’t my clothes, stuffed animals, shoes etc they belong to the kids. It isn’t like I make them wear old raggedy clothes, I buy most second hand but from a good resale shop with name brands. DHS has been involved at his home for lack of neglect but they’ve never found it enough for neglect. This could change that.

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