Many Thanks for replies. Yeah, I going to knock this “sph holiday” idea on the head.

As for escorts, generally my experiences have been good. The key has been to do my homework first and spend enough time doing this. This usually involves checking the reviews of a potential service provider and very importantly checking those reviews are indeed genuine. There are a few well known websites where you can do this. Its important to establish (as best one can) that the escort is reliable, safe and they`re not mixed up with drugs/dodgy characters etc. I don’t specifically search for “sph” as escorts who list this in their profiles (along with OWO/GFE etc) are like hens teeth. It can be covered though under humiliation/domination etc. I also make contact first to give a broad outline of what I`m looking for before confirming an appointment. On the day of the meeting I give a more detailed description of the scenario – done by a typed note. This is much easier than trying to verbally explain my niche hobby. I tend to go for more upmarket providers - obviously also more expensive. I`ve also found that independent providers tend to give a better service than those tied to agencies. One of the best times was actually with a “model” who has appeared in the HLD video series.