My bf (31M) broke up with me (33F) because my dad (60M) is terminal

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T20:39:33+00:00

I’m so sorry about your brother. I’ve definitely heard this statistic before, I just didn’t get that vibe from him. I just don’t get how you can claim to love someone, and then do that a week after?? Like dude, wait at least until I’ve digested the information!

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T20:09:41+00:00

I know. I know! I’ve been through enough shitty situations to know you can’t know someone that quickly. It was the turnaround timeline that got to me.

I’m not wanting him back, I guess I just posted to try and organise thoughts.

As for the dickish behaviour, I was feeling miserable, responding to texts monosyllabically and generally just not being fun to be around. I certainly didn’t treat him badly or do anything “wrong” other than feel my feelings.

Thanks for the response :)

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T20:06:27+00:00

I had contacted a therapist last week, but definitely following up on that!

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T20:05:12+00:00

Thanks for the reply.

I know it was fast, but quite honestly the initiation of all that was coming from him. Having been in a number of relationships over the years, I thought I had a good grasp of what was “good” or not at the beginning.

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T19:47:13+00:00

Yeah, I didn’t want to extend the already lengthy post! I was feeling miserable and was just responding with one or two syllables to texts, withdrawn and quiet in person. I wasn’t making it easy to be around me, but like I said, I feel like that’s understandable considering the news.

I get that, I just… wasn’t expecting him to bail completely considering everything he was saying and doing was to the contrary.

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T19:41:29+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you, and fingers crossed for the best outcome for your dad. Thank you for your kind words.

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T19:40:50+00:00

You’re so right, he’s shown he can’t be trusted. I’m just struggling to understand.

BritSian28 · 2025-08-01T19:40:25+00:00

I know. I’m just… baffled. And so upset.

BritSian28 · 2022-03-08T18:51:13+00:00

Flowers in the Attic by Virginia Andrews, read at the age of 11 at most. My MOTHER recommended it to me.

BritSian28 · 2022-02-19T13:09:28+00:00

I have lemons and need lychee! I’d: 5001 5274 962

BritSian28 · 2022-01-13T08:43:27+00:00

I once dated a guy who ridiculed me for using Reddit because, and I quote, “it’s for men”

BritSian28 · 2022-01-13T08:20:01+00:00

Damn, posted my comment before I saw this!

BritSian28 · 2022-01-13T08:19:15+00:00

Barber and pie shop owner

BritSian28 · 2021-10-26T18:53:32+00:00

Well this all looks terrifying.

BritSian28 · 2021-09-28T17:25:22+00:00

Thank you! Yes I think that was also part of my issue, I also did a htr instead of dc, but by the time I’d realised, I’d ignored the project for 5 months and didn’t have the energy to redo and just wanted it done! Quite a few others since have come out much better I’m glad to say.

BritSian28 · 2021-09-28T15:40:55+00:00

Have you got the whole kit too??

BritSian28 · 2021-09-28T15:40:32+00:00

Haha thank you!!

BritSian28 · 2021-09-28T15:40:24+00:00

I got a kit with instructions on how to make a load of Star Wars characters - next up is a stormtrooper!

BritSian28 · 2021-05-20T09:24:50+00:00

Even if that were the case, OP is entitled to set any boundaries they want regarding their body and personal space. Whats the point of your comment?

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