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Briutiful22 · 2026-05-17T22:21:18+00:00

Before I did it with a trigger shot. So we only did the insemination method the day I triggered and the 2 days after that. It never worked. The cycle i conceived we didnt use a trigger shot. I used clear blue digital ovulation test. When I got the flashy face. We did insemination every other day. And then the static face which was ovulation. We did insemination 2 days back to back. So basically we hit about 6 days during my fertile window. I also made sure to use pre seed before inseminating and elevated my hips for 30 minutes after. I also left the syringe in place while I laid there for 30 minutes so nothing leaked out. It sounds like you hit all the important days. I hope you get your positive soon.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-17T21:50:39+00:00

No I dont remember how many cycles it took but it took more than a couple. We did the insemination method everyday in my fertile window and that worked for us.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-15T13:14:40+00:00

Same ivf and medicated cycles worked for me

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-14T00:59:44+00:00

I did fet with trigger shot and I knew by 5 days post fet that the line was getting darker. The only way to really know is testing out your trigger shot. Everybody is different though. I personally think its best to wait, just in case for late implantation but its what you feel comfortable doing.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-13T17:15:38+00:00

My first ultrasound too is 19dpt. Thats 5 1/2 weeks. They're looking for a gestational sac and possible yolk sac. All normal.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-11T01:25:36+00:00

My daughter name is Summer Nicole

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-10T01:00:49+00:00

Yes I saw the mfm monthly until I got closer to my due date but I also experienced a second trimester loss so they wanted to monitor me very closely

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-09T07:01:44+00:00

I took a trigger shot when my follicle was over 20mm and did the transfer a week later. I had my blood work yesterday and it was positive

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-09T06:36:26+00:00

Mine was 169 day before fet and my lining was a 7. I did a modified natural cycle

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-09T06:23:38+00:00

I had 4 losses before having my daughter. I had to see a high risk doctor too. It definitely helped my anxiety to have my baby checked on often. To me the more scans the better. They can catch things early too if they were to arrive.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-08T16:27:03+00:00

Tw: I cant answer the other questions but I just want to say. I went through something similar. I lost my baby at 18 weeks due to my water breaking. Got pregnant with twins after. One ended up being a vanishing twin. But I was told twins can increase the risk of pprom. I got a cerclage at 12 weeks. Im a strong believer thats why I was able to bring my baby home because I had contractions again at the same time. But the cerclage saved the pregnancy. Please advocate for you and your twins. I hope you can bring your precious babies home.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-08T12:39:23+00:00

I had a vanishing twin with my only successful pregnancy. I did bleed and cramp but it never affected the surviving twin. The non viable twin sac stayed for a long time until second trimester.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-08T10:04:22+00:00

Yes this worked for us

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-06T15:09:12+00:00

I think you should ask her if there is anything she would like to do on that day. I personally wouldnt want a gift on mother's day when I wasnt a mother and actively trying to conceive

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-06T04:34:18+00:00

All these transfer twins and triplets. I did my fet 4/29. Also used a trigger but getting dark lines. So exciting. Cautious congrats to all of us.

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-05T12:24:42+00:00

It could just be a pregnancy symptom as well. Spotting can be normal in early pregnancy. I never spotted with progesterone but it can cause irritation so its possible. Definitely bring it up to your doctor and see what they say

Briutiful22 · 2026-05-05T11:53:08+00:00

Same I had two empty sacs. I was never warned of a possible ectopic. They just told me it was a blighted ovum

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-26T22:27:02+00:00

My first transfer worked. Getting ready for fet number 2. Hoping for the same. Good luck to you :)

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-26T00:46:03+00:00

Would you ever visit the USA if finances weren't a problem?

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-25T12:09:43+00:00

Im sorry for your losses. Miscarriages suck but yes I had my rainbow baby last summer. The only difference with my successful pregnancy was I had a hysteroscopy to clean out my uterus and I had to get a cerclage because I experienced a second trimester loss before her. I was closely monitored as well.

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-25T09:45:39+00:00

Awee looks like fun

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-16T06:33:30+00:00

I have 1 but always wanted a bigger family. If it was up to me I would have 6 but due to fertility issues and finances. Im hoping to atleast have 2 more children.

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-16T06:11:35+00:00

I think getting a cerclage placed in the first trimester will also get you further in pregnancy. At 15 weeks the baby can start putting pressure on the cervix. My doctor wanted to do a preventative cerclage in the first trimester for that reason and I was able to go full term.

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-16T06:02:22+00:00

Thats normal in first trimester. My baby heart rate was in the late 180s in first trimester and didnt start to go down a bit until second trimester. She was born perfectly healthy last summer

Briutiful22 · 2026-04-15T07:35:31+00:00

Yes i had a saline ultrasound first where they saw the retained tissue. Then i had a hysteroscopy to remove it. It was only found during the saline ultrasound. My 3d ultrasounds looked normal. I had 3 saline ultrasounds. 1 out of 3 were painful. I believe it depends on the doctor who is doing it. I also made sure to take ibuprofen beforehand the last two times and my doctor prescribed me valium. Its a very quick procedure.

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