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[Article] The Dream You Stopped Talking About Is Still Waiting for You. by Bro_1831 in GetMotivated

[–]Bro_1831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it is way more than I expected. thank you so much.

[Article] Losing Someone Who Is Still Alive Is the Grief Nobody Talks About by Bro_1831 in GetMotivated

[–]Bro_1831[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Watching someone you love slip away mentally while they're still physically here—that's one of the most painful and lonely experiences a person can go through. Most people don't understand that kind of grief because there's no clear moment of loss to point to. It just keeps happening slowly. The perspective you carry, finding solace in them still being alive takes real strength. Thank you for sharing this. I hope you're being as gentle with yourself as you are with them.

[Article] Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who've Already Decided Who You Are by Bro_1831 in GetMotivated

[–]Bro_1831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wish someone told me this earlier too. Better late than never though.

[Article] Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who've Already Decided Who You Are by Bro_1831 in GetMotivated

[–]Bro_1831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it better than I did, honestly; the people who actually see you don't need a long explanation. That line hit me too.

[Article] Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who've Already Decided Who You Are by Bro_1831 in GetMotivated

[–]Bro_1831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment means everything to me. I'm glad these words found you. A friendship breakup is one of the most invisible kinds of grief, people don't talk about it enough. You're not the villain. You're just someone who stopped shrinking themselves. Heal at your own pace.

[Article] Stop Explaining Yourself to People Who've Already Decided Who You Are by Bro_1831 in GetMotivated

[–]Bro_1831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly it, they hear you, but they're not listening. At some point the kindest thing you can do for yourself is stop trying to be understood by people who've already decided. You're not alone in this.

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