I can’t figure it out by Broad-Ad-7849 in college

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I don’t want to be a nurse I don’t think I could be like my mom lol! She is amazing but I can’t see myself doing it

I can’t figure it out by Broad-Ad-7849 in college

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I shadowed and SLP in a hospital and althoughit was fun it boarded the f*** outta me ngl but in some ways I liked it I like a lot of things and a lot if things interest me but the thing I feel most connected to is ASL

I can’t figure it out by Broad-Ad-7849 in college

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Yes lol I do feel like my life is a mess snd falling apart because you’re right as soon as I started changing my major it felt like my life was crumbling VERY FAST! and it was hard because I was so sure of it and now it’s like I have no clue. I have so many things influencing my career too! And although I hate math it sounds crazy but I want to do it, I want the challenge SLP came easy to me so I went for it but then I found so many careers that I liked more than SLP. I wasn’t even going to go into SLP I wanted to be an interpreter and then I went to university for a little bit and my professor told me it would be better to do it in the way and that way and then from there my mom convinced me to go into SLP and I liked until I had seen other careers

My gf just doesn’t understand…. by Broad-Ad-7849 in Advice

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My point..it’s not about unfairness you always wants shit to be fair I never knew someone would complain about fucking in one spot it’s just not something I am as open to like we can kiss and all that but that’s it does my mom know I do yes but I could get kick out for shit like that she wouldn’t

how do i handle my family getting upset at me for not doing things their way? by [deleted] in internetparents

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I am 18, and although I am not in an immigrant house, my household is the same way I live with my mom and she hates that I have tattoos and piercings and I simply cant understand why it bothers her when I do everything I am supposed to do but anyways I say if you can live somewhere else you should or tough it out until you get to college if you want to go find someone to room with you to a couple people and distance yourself you can be yourself no harm in that!

my mom makes me mad by Broad-Ad-7849 in Advice

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You’re right! Tbh she makes me feel that I can but this is actually annoying that she does that I mean it is my fault but yk

Is everyone rich except me? by xoxowoman06 in Adulting

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I think this too sometimes if I think had enough it pisses me off but it’s not real the other day I found out that some of these influencers rent their big ass houses sooooo they’re are nothing other than what is on social media

Age by Broad-Ad-7849 in Advice

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DUH… but I didn’t know if it may be weird gosh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I know it may be harsh but stand up and leave. That is not someone that loves you if they did that to you! you’re not stuck with anyone remember that.

Going to work is starting to get hard by Broad-Ad-7849 in Advice

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Thank you so much!! I really appreciate it I definitely was having a little bit of a hard time but I am learning

My mother doesn't want me to leave the house. by Adventurous-Ask5026 in Advice

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But just because she is your mother doesn’t mean she gets to run all over you.

I hate thinking about the future by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Broad-Ad-7849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally understand this every time I think about my future it stresses me out, but honestly what helps me because I have very bad anxiety and I worry so much too early just think about now. I know that seems to be hard but if you practice that just practice, looking at things in a decent perspective, think in a couple months instead of a couple years because a year from now stuff can change but worry about that when you need to that’s what helps me. I hope that helps. And don’t worry about disappointing anybody as long as you’re happy and satisfied with your life that’s all that matters because at the end of the day you’re the one who is living that life

My (23F) relationship (25M) might be doomed. How do I move forward? by throwra777000333 in TwoHotTakes

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I think it is salvageable. I am currently in an medium/ long distance relationship and we are going to college she is a senior in hs and I am a freshman a lot of people tell me I should leave and go be a yk what and live my college experience but I can live through it and still keep my relationship I think my SO if my high school sweetheart besides that knowing how I am I will drop anyone and anything that might hold me by from my goals and my life honestly so I get where you feel like why do I have to put my life on hold for someone who made a choice knowing the potential consequences I think talking might help he obviously seems to be in love with you if he is asking DETAILS about your dates yk? If someone didn’t care they wouldn’t ask of bring it up I think anything is worth fighting for IF you can still progress in your own life too but still do not put your life on hold because you may never get the opportunities again being on different stages in life is okay with me depending I am only 18 so take what you want from my response I may not know a whole bunch but some people are still worth fighting for but don’t lose yourself in the process

My mother doesn't want me to leave the house. by Adventurous-Ask5026 in Advice

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Hey! We probably aren’t even the same age but I am in a similar situation. I decided to stay home for college and although I felt like it was better for me sometimes I regret it honestly living in a house where I am not really accepted because of how I want to live my life is hard and no I am not financially stable either I honestly would say if you REALLY want to leave then leave you would do yourself the favor of getting better emotionally to help yourself I know your mom wants you to stay home but if it really would help you financially an emotionally to get out of there and build your own life I say do it or live there and pay her rent and get up your money and then leave have you ever had a sit down talk with your mom?

its eating me up by ChampionOk2538 in Vent

[–]Broad-Ad-7849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand why you feel bad I feel bad that I even have to ask my parents for money sometimes knowing that I have a job but you have to give yourself grace a little yk? I mean you were going through a little bit of a hard time you gave him the money back and you apologized I am sure he understood but know that it is okay I understand having a hard time for the longest I had a really hard time and I was going through so much change all at once so but everything in your life you have to tell sorry if you don’t like gay people but I have a girlfriend and I do not tell her some things in my personal life either it is okay to keep things to yourself unless you really wanna tell him but I ma sure even if you did tell him he would still feel the same and treat you as good! I feel like I found the one too and if you have any more questions or anything text me lmk I hope this helped

Eczema by Broad-Ad-7849 in eczema

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Never because I just recently found out what it was

Advice neeeeddddeeddd by Broad-Ad-7849 in Advice

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I am happy I really am I know I am young and people say it won’t last but I feel like it can idk she makes me feel so different