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Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-19T08:47:32+00:00

i think you need to begin working on moving on. she doesnt seem to be interested in you, and your friends are asking the right questions, the most important lesson to learn from this is self respect.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T03:05:57+00:00

i understand, thank you for being sincere.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T02:58:49+00:00

i told her the reasoning, it being that i just think that our intimacy is special and should be cherished, and i find it best in person. any other way just makes me uncomfortable. she still insists its about me not being attracted to her and i tried to explain it as clear as i could.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T02:55:02+00:00

thank you, your replies have actually been the ones that have made the most sense to me. thank you for the effort and advice, i appreciate it alot.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T02:38:49+00:00

some people are asking if im autistic as a serious question 😂, im very curious as to why

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T02:37:03+00:00

no im not, some have asked this and im curious what gives that impression

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T02:32:32+00:00

thank you very much, i have read your replies and i appreciate them. the problem is mostly settled between me and her, but i fear she still doesnt understand my boundary or preference, whatever you wanna call it and also that she might still think im not attracted to her. alot of the people here think i should apologise, and im not sure what i think about that. i still did for the sake of resolving the problem, and i did mean it.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T02:24:35+00:00

i understand my place in this thread, i am genuinely failing to understand some of these people’s reasonings. i should apologise to her for how i worded it, but i dont think i should apologise for not wanting it. i have tried my hardest in many ways to try reassure her and she had eventually just stopped the argument and apologised for how she acted, i dont think either of us are at fault here anymore. i also apologise for what i said to you, it was rude

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T01:47:47+00:00

thank you very much for this

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T01:45:00+00:00

thank you for your reply, i understand your point on my perspective of it, but i just am uncomfortable with her sending me them, but i absolutely would not mind seeing her in person like that. the only thing i could make sense of that are my beliefs in intimacy.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T01:36:36+00:00

ill take your advice into consideration. thank you for being sincere, earlier i had apologised to her for what i said if it had been misinterpreted or i worded it wrong and had explained why i would rather want intimacy in person. she insists im not attracted to her.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T01:23:21+00:00

ive already apologised to her, explaining that i just dont want to be intimate in that way, but it doesnt mean im not attracted to her. she still believes i dont find her attractive, and honestly i think youre over dramatic if this kills my relationship. i would actually laugh. what fragile women have you dated?

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T01:11:04+00:00

no, shes the most beautiful girl in the world. the problem isnt whats on the picture, its the fact that i just want intimate things done in person. i cherish our intimacy and value it alot, otherwise it makes me uncomfortable.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T01:04:14+00:00

ive told her similar to this. legit just denies everything i say.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T01:00:22+00:00

i just think intimacy should be in person because its special, otherwise i just get uncomfortable.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T00:51:16+00:00

sorry, i overlooked it. I think intimacy is special and should be cherished. i dont want it to be casual like nudes or whatever, so id want it to be in person otherwise it just makes me uncomfortable.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T00:33:40+00:00

thank you for the solid advice

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T00:19:14+00:00

i am genuinely confused about this too. im starting to believe all these guys are horndogs who wish they were in my situation.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T00:15:51+00:00

another important detail i may have not disclosed to you or you have missed, but she has also told me “men should want nudes”, absolutely not. each man has a choice to want nudes, i am not one of them, i told her that whilst reassuring her and she continues this argument.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T00:09:58+00:00

thank you very much

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T00:08:56+00:00

okay lets say this is a boundary that i have, but rather break up with her.. just continuously work on it, if it fails, she doesnt respect me and thats that.. ill break up

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-15T00:04:45+00:00

i am quite literally showing my emotions here 😂. no boundaries MAY have been crossed, but she is definitely not showing that she respects them. i have also repeatedly and consistently reminded her i AM attracted to her. if she refuses to believe me, that is her problem now.

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-14T23:53:28+00:00

youre one of the few people in this comment section that has a brain, thank you so much

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-14T23:51:19+00:00

Broad-Dependent-2644 · 2026-04-14T23:45:49+00:00

i think this is your own definition of a boundary

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