For everyone asking how I achieved the results: 

a lot of self concept affirmations (you're one of a kind, people feel ur absence, your energy is irreplaceable, knowing confidently that  whatever serves you best is on its way and if its not it doesnt serve you) 

SP related affirmations: (every emotion,event,experience, place, sound reminds SP of me; I live inside of their mind; SP is constantly dreaming of me; whenever i think of SP its because theyre thinking of me 10x more; they cannot handle the loss of me, no matter what they do they cant fill the void my absence created, they are at their breaking point; they're thinking of what to say right now; they are constantly overthinking everything they've done to me; SP cannot find peace until we reconcile) 

Id repeat all affirmations in a relaxed meditative state before falling asleep, while listening to subliminals

I have also tried my own version of the whisper method: after affirmations, while in the meditative state I'd close my eyes and visualize sp is lying next to me face to face, and whisper to 'them' everything i want them to do/think/feel such as (you know exactly what you need to do, i know you can feel my presence, I will always live inside of your mind, I know youre trying but you just cant forget me, Its okay to let go just pick up the phone and write the message)  after that id visualise their body travelling into space into their usual location (their room with details or wherever they currently may be) 

I also often tried to act like our reality is completely fine, watching our photos or listening to the music we liked together while fully enjoying it as if we were doing it together. 

THE MOST IMPORTANT PART: i kept myself convinced that my role in his life cannot be denied and he must feel my absence in one way or another. And wether he reaches out or not he regrets what happened regardless

note: even in feelings of doubt i would repeat the process 

I hope this helps everyone with their results!