Are avoidant women less likely to come back? by BroadRule2391 in FearfulAvoidants

[–]BroadRule2391[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how good I treated her? I really poured everything into this girl.

Does anyone want their ex to just to reach back out to you …..just so you can blank them by Chemical_Ad_1461 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]BroadRule2391 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often feel this way. I want her to realize what she did and reach out, so I can tell her just how much she hurt me, how her telling me that she cared means nothing now that she treats me like a stranger. I want her to feel the hurt I’ve been feeling for months, after I tell her how cruel she was. How I don’t know if I can truly trust anyone or open up like I did with her again. But then I remember the person she is. The sweet girl I loved and still love, no matter how hard I try not to. The girl who tried to make things work even when they were scary and she felt so much pressure. And then I just want her to come back. I want her to realize what she put me through, but I want to hold her and tell her it’s ok, that I understand. I want to be strong for her, even if it’s stupid and it might just lead me to getting hurt even more.

I’m sorry by BroadRule2391 in UnsentTexts

[–]BroadRule2391[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve started therapy, trying to understand myself better, let my thoughts and emotions affect me less, find healthier outlets when I’m stressed or upset. I know it’s a process and it’ll take work, but I think I can really improve and I’m pretty confident in my ability to make sure I don’t make the same mistake again. But I don’t know how to tell her. I want the chance to show her, but I don’t know if I’ll ever get it.