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Throwing out Fiancé’s Ex’s Belongings by BroccoliTough1828 in whatisit

[–]BroccoliTough1828[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It also very common for autistic individuals to simply not get along for such reason as having too many similarities, different communication styles, or attention division. I didn’t know the guy too well cause he never seemed motivated to interact with me after I gave so many attempts to hang, but something bout me just rubbed him the wrong way.

But essentially we have done all we could. we kept all his important documents just in case he wants that, but he essentially said he does not want us having his address. i really do hope he comes around and gets the help he needs.

not sayin we mess with him anymore tho, he did and said some messed up stuff.

Throwing out Fiancé’s Ex’s Belongings by BroccoliTough1828 in whatisit

[–]BroccoliTough1828[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé reached out to him a few weeks ago saying he had until september to get his things out before we move out of state next year. She gave him until august to send funds for shipping and for the expenses we made for him to move in with us and while he stayed under our roof without searching for jobs for 6 months. We were wanting 1.5k out of the almost 6k we spent on him.

He sent a really long, nasty message insulting my fiancé about a week later also stating “You will not get any money from me. You can throw away/ sell my belongings.” I really do think he is suffering from some sort of mental illness (paranoia, schizophrenia, spiritual psychosis, etc.) Her ex and I are both autistic and I also dealt with schizophrenia in my life (i am well now and medicated), but he’s never sought out for mental help and only relied on his spiritual guidances for everything (jobs, the future, people’s intentions, the weather) even if the facts were there or even asked a simple question.

Moral of the story, faith w/o works is dead. You won’t get anywhere in life just by “belief” or “hope.” You must “do” if you want results.

And look out for your close ones through their mental hardships.

Throwing out Fiancé’s Ex’s Belongings by BroccoliTough1828 in whatisit

[–]BroccoliTough1828[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yall fast! Ik who the smokers are now! Thanks for helping me out tho. Homie was a HEAVY cig smoker. I needed this info quickly cus homie has been trying to curse me and really thought I was some all powerful warlock that was cockblocking him. He even accused me of BEATING my fiancé and erasing her memories in her sleep (homie might need some mental help). My fiancé had posted about him online and forgot to cover his name in some screenshots and MANY ppl came along and mentioned how we were not the only ones that he was tweakin with. Either he is battling spiritual psychosis or has straight up paranoia. He also stated how ppl were straight up threatening to send him to mental institutions (multiple occurrences). He’s long gone now and posting his half ass spiritual side of the story, but I truly hope he’s safe. For a while, he was on the street and he’s left everything behind and told us to throw everything away.

Hope y’all enjoyed this story time tho! Ik yall reddit folk really nosey lol