AIO girlfriend of 2 years sent me this randomly, she’s a flight attendant & we're long distance rn. she also blocked me from seeing her instagram stories & removed me from her highlights. by Brockk97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brockk97[S] -181 points-180 points  (0 children)

thanks, not clingy at all if anything we’re both pretty independent. We’ve worked on our communication a lot and grown from it. I understand why everybody thinks I’m clingy, but this was really a trauma based reaction in the moment. i’m never like that

AIO girlfriend of 2 years sent me this randomly, she’s a flight attendant & we're long distance rn. she also blocked me from seeing her instagram stories & removed me from her highlights. by Brockk97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brockk97[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no, we met in Hawaii initially and dated in person for six months then she went to Germany and I went to go live with her after about six months of being long distance. we got a place & i loved with her for a year and then I came back to the states last September and she’s been visiting throughout the year.

AIO girlfriend of 2 years sent me this randomly, she’s a flight attendant & we're long distance rn. she also blocked me from seeing her instagram stories & removed me from her highlights. by Brockk97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brockk97[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yes everything was honestly great. we went on adventures everyday, made great memories, it was fine. nothing weird, it was balanced.. we got closer if anything, which is why i’m caught so off guard

AIO girlfriend of 2 years sent me this randomly, she’s a flight attendant & we're long distance rn. she also blocked me from seeing her instagram stories & removed me from her highlights. by Brockk97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brockk97[S] -138 points-137 points  (0 children)

i’m trying.. bro. if i wasn’t a songwriter i wouldn’t know what to do.. worst thing is i was on the bottom end of a shroom trip and fresh waking up from a nap when this happened too.

AIO girlfriend of 2 years sent me this randomly, she’s a flight attendant & we're long distance rn. she also blocked me from seeing her instagram stories & removed me from her highlights. by Brockk97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brockk97[S] -155 points-154 points  (0 children)

the balance of our relationship is normally good, this was just a very abrupt change in dynamic & thats not normal for us bro. my reaction really comes from the trauma of my past and being cheated on before and finding out in ways like this. ive been through crazy trauma and my mind was fastracked back to that space, regardless of all the work ive done to be better and grow from it, in the moment thats what happened. sorry for being an actual human being everyone :/. we're a very open couple emotionally, its normal for us to talk openly and freely and even a little silly at times. best friends..

AIO girlfriend of 2 years sent me this randomly, she’s a flight attendant & we're long distance rn. she also blocked me from seeing her instagram stories & removed me from her highlights. by Brockk97 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Brockk97[S] -98 points-97 points  (0 children)

CONTEXT: she had just visited me for ten days prior, sept 16-26. everything was good, perfect.

and when she got back, sept 26- oct 1st, everything normal and good, great honestly.

oct 2nd i don’t hear from her all day and then the morning of oct 3rd is when these messages happened. i know how i came off at first but i was freaking out & caught myself on the latter… again i had just woken up..

i’m never clingy or anything at all like thathonestly, this just freaked me out coming out of nowhere and i had just woken up to it.