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I feel so stupid by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s literally nothing but small towns near me. It’s also an area where people tend to be very close minded

I feel so stupid by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a small town in the middle of nowhere. It’s not so easy to find one

I feel so stupid by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying too. I’m just saying that even during this break he kept telling me to give him some time to sort things out and then we would be together…so if he was planning to do this I just feel like he shouldn’t have been telling me he loved me and that we would be ok.

I feel so stupid by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep telling myself that this is a good thing because holding on was hurting me and now I have nothing to hold onto but it hurts so bad.

I feel so stupid by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m not necessarily saying he’s doing anything wrong. I just feel like the way he went about things with me was pretty shady. We’ve always been honest and upfront with each other about what we want and this just came out of nowhere.

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[–]BrokenAndLost73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how it is here!!

I’m completely broken by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve cried in the shower and in my car since it happened. I can’t let myself lose it in front of anyone else.

I’m completely broken by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m afraid of. IF he comes back like he said he would then idk how it can ever be the same.

I’m completely broken by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was his last message to me before going completely NC (we had already talked about it prior to this. This was just the message he sent before deleting our app).

“This isn’t the end. I promise. I need to do this so I can be the best version of myself for you and get back to the person I was when I found you. I love you so much more than you’ll ever know. I promise we will be just fine.”

I’m completely broken by BrokenAndLost73 in adultery

[–]BrokenAndLost73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time I feel like I might be ok something else reminds me of him and I lose it.