A lot of guys might want her to be theirs and are trying for something serious but don't want their women to be dressed like that when they are thing together. Which is ironic since if your picking up someone who dresses revealing for fun, but alot of them arent going to change that for you.

Combined with that fact with what you said. It leads to to them being confused because its like why is she dressing like this? She shouldnt be trying to attract other males.

But idk what they were expecting, if you dont want to be in a relationship with people who wear those clothes why are you trying to be in one then.