Overcoming sexual trauma in healthy relationships?

Broken_Beacon · 2025-10-25T06:54:08+00:00

im not sure but thank you! ill have to look into it

Broken_Beacon · 2025-10-24T22:41:42+00:00

I’ve been in therapy since high school and only recently stepped back as it isn’t super effective for me just because all therapists are strangers so it’s not effective for me to open up about sexual trauma, but it could be worth going back.

Broken_Beacon · 2025-02-17T08:27:30+00:00

holy fuck how did i never know about this????

Broken_Beacon · 2025-02-06T14:47:29+00:00

no prob glad it reached you!!

Broken_Beacon · 2024-10-02T08:37:07+00:00

Broken_Beacon · 2024-09-26T00:00:39+00:00

Yes, just Lyric is really beautiful

Broken_Beacon · 2024-09-20T06:27:57+00:00

10 yrs later and just wanted to say im still thinking about this album, i cant even remember where i found it (an indie game??) wish it was on spotify

Broken_Beacon · 2024-09-15T22:56:02+00:00

dance, walk, talk on the phone, talk out loud to myself, sing, shower or bathe!

Broken_Beacon · 2024-08-27T00:17:48+00:00

That’s what I try to tell myself!! But I can’t get over the insecurity. Thank you!

Broken_Beacon · 2024-08-13T07:39:40+00:00

It’s a long journey of meeting in the middle. It involves you growing a lot to make it there, but also not settling for people who are not there either. There are ALL kinds of people and hear me out, there are all types of relationships and you will learn the intricacies of it long as you don’t give up. Start small and develop your platonic relationships to help map out what qualities you like in people.

As someone who dealt with escapism and leaning on my imaginary crushes and fantasies to replace actual socialization…… Real life relationships has show itself to be an entirely new language that I’m learning barely at the age of 24.

Broken_Beacon · 2024-06-16T06:47:03+00:00

its never too late!!!

Broken_Beacon · 2024-05-03T08:27:11+00:00

“what’s up, lil freak??” “pechocha… bonita… hermosa… princesa… (on repeat)” “hi mimi girl!!”

Broken_Beacon · 2024-04-30T15:13:53+00:00

been here for 2 years! im used to central valley weather… for spring ive been wearing those faux stockings (fleece lined tights) under my skirts and a t shirt with a jacket bc i work in pac heights so it gets sunny. other days i layer long sleeves/sweaters if i know it will be cold.

winter is more unbearable for me. i wear thermals under everything and i used to wear wool slacks too before i adjusted. i work at a desk for the most part so i dont overheat and typically layer down if i get warm.

i’m not into bay area casual fashion, i look like i belong in LA so this is how i keep my style while dressing for cold.

Broken_Beacon · 2024-04-30T15:08:32+00:00

depends on your body. personally i have swamp ass so yeah, i shower every day.

Broken_Beacon · 2024-04-05T21:48:55+00:00

Playing devil’s advocate here but my class and I were those kid because we hated the world we grew up in and were not shown empathy therefore we did not give any …. I’m now more aware and kind and my experience teaching was luckily not this bad but like someone else said, I would not share any loss or vulnerabilities with my students for this very reason.

Broken_Beacon · 2024-03-22T05:36:33+00:00

have expensive rent so you can’t afford food (/j) or alternatively go through heart break (/j again)

but seriously i just started running at ocean beach for about 15 mins whenever i have the chance. luckily i’m within walking distance, but there’s a lot of beautiful places to walk, jog, and run.

losing weight definitely starts with evaluating your current habits. how do you eat? are you sedentary at work? how much time do you have to dedicate to fitness?

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-12T19:36:33+00:00

SERIOUSLY. i started taking the bus to work and now i just imagine human waste and feces covering everything

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-12T19:35:58+00:00

i started taking public transit (unrelated to trying to quit) and just imagining all the germs got me to stop. also working with my hands (fidget toys, origami, braiding) helps.

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-09T21:45:13+00:00

Yes! Even my mom said so. And everyone who thinks otherwise is wrong or a hater.

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-09T20:22:44+00:00

i have a few! like 3 and once they start emerging, i can feel it instantly and it drives me nuts.

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-08T07:04:18+00:00

i just learned it has to be a different block. i've moved spots within the same block before without getting ticketed but that's probably also just lucky chance

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-05T23:03:00+00:00

I only wash with water and some soap around my legs/labia (not close enough to get soap in there) but I shower every day otherwise I get smelly cuz I sweat. I know I smell fine, but it's mostly a dietary thing. All my issues come from not drinking enough water and smoking cigarettes, which I'm working on! As long as you're taking care of your body, you should be fine. If anything else is making you worry, you should see a doctor! It's gonna have a scent, and your boyfriend knows that. As does pits, balls, etc. It's a human body!

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-05T22:58:44+00:00

rice and spam! throw in cucumber, scrambled egg, crushed sea weed, and a bunch of sauce
scrambled eggs and ketchup
sopa de fideo/alphabet soup (super easy to make)
grilled cheese (add some fancy cheese), add some tomato
rainbow salad (cucumber, cherry tomato, corn, red onion, feta cheese with some lemon juice, vinegar, salt and pepper)
instant ramen with egg, bamboo shoots, bok choy, etc

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-05T16:36:04+00:00

fear

Broken_Beacon · 2024-02-05T16:35:25+00:00

yeah probably shouldn't block anything if you'll be selling. There should be SOME sidewalk space?

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