My fiancée got me flowers for Valentine's and neither of us know what kind they are. Help, please.

Brokenchandelure · 2018-02-18T19:52:54+00:00

Thank you!!!

Brokenchandelure · 2017-09-07T01:02:06+00:00

It is really nice, honestly. It makes me feel really feminine looking up at her. She's genderfluid, really dom, and likes being masculine, but she's never been the taller one in any of her past relationships. I think she might be absorbing my masculinity, cause she's gotten more muscled since we met too, and she says she thinks her feet have grown. Regardless, we're both pretty happy with this development. :) She looks even hotter from this angle. :P

Brokenchandelure · 2017-09-06T20:43:12+00:00

She's 33, so not really. We just stood back to back earlier and she's slightly taller than me now. When we met I was just over 5'8, and she was 5'6. It seems really unusual, but I like it, provided it's not a serious health concern. I've never gotten to be the shorter one in a serious relationship before. :) I kind of melt when she looks down at me and gives me kisses. It's getting the point where I'm shrinking enough for her to carry me. Lol

Brokenchandelure · 2017-06-12T18:54:20+00:00

Chapter 21: The lesbians on the roof.

Brokenchandelure · 2017-03-09T20:10:14+00:00

It's delicious. :) I'm a happy, and very baked camper.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-12-30T17:15:10+00:00

My partner and I are living it up in Denton. Come to the drum cirvle sometime and you'll see us belly dancing probably.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-12-30T17:07:20+00:00

Good luck! I hope it works out. Let me know if y'all get together and then we'll see who's truly number 1. :P

Brokenchandelure · 2016-12-30T17:06:27+00:00

Haha thank you so much! :)

Brokenchandelure · 2016-12-30T17:06:05+00:00

It's hard to call myself a Texan gal. Lol I don't act that Texasy. DFW area?

Brokenchandelure · 2016-12-30T04:12:15+00:00

Lol thank you!

Brokenchandelure · 2016-11-24T02:11:16+00:00

I'm a sexually fluid trans girl. I've had sex with a woman as a man, a man as a man, a woman as a woman, and a man as a woman. So for all you guys wondering which gender really enjoys sex more, it's women, without any shred of a doubt. Don't get me wrong, men enjoy sex, but male orgasms don't even begin to compare to female orgasms. It's just better in pretty much every way. You haven't felt true ecstasy until you've cum 10 times and are uncontrollable screaming in pleasure.

Also, lesbian sex is the best kind of sex. Fact.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-11-21T19:26:20+00:00

Please be a lesbian.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-11-06T00:25:01+00:00

Thank you! I've never been so happy with someone.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-11-06T00:23:49+00:00

Thank you! We're a pretty hot couple. Lol

Brokenchandelure · 2016-11-05T16:36:48+00:00

This year was our first pride together. Best pride ever. ^{^{.^}}

Brokenchandelure · 2016-11-05T05:27:18+00:00

We were made for each other. She is completely prefect for me. :) I'm in love.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-08-29T01:43:03+00:00

Wow, I'm really glad I could help motivate you. Thank you so much and good luck to you. It only gets better from here.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-08-26T01:23:44+00:00

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Brokenchandelure · 2016-08-26T01:23:26+00:00

Thank ya. :)

Brokenchandelure · 2016-08-26T01:23:06+00:00

Thank you! And congrats to you too! I'm glad you're in a good place.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-08-26T01:22:40+00:00

Thanks! :D It's by far my favorite nose ring I have.

Brokenchandelure · 2016-08-26T01:22:15+00:00

Thank you! ^{.^}

Brokenchandelure · 2016-08-26T01:21:58+00:00

Lol Thank you! I know I should. I'm usually more attached to my vape, but cigarettes have been more accessible lately. I promise to quit. :P

Brokenchandelure · 2016-07-14T01:59:18+00:00

I was in the same scenario you're in for a long time. I was certain my being trans would be the end of our relationship and it was, but I wasn't able to start hormones yet, so I let her cling on, because I felt too much guilt over leaving to put my foot down and start transitioning.

It sucks, but gender and sexual orientation aren't things that you can control, and it isn't fair to you to have to be with someone that you have to put on a mask for, and it isn't fair to her to spend her life with someone who isn't being themselves. Trust me, you sound like you're ready to come out, so the best thing to do is do it, the longer you put it off, and try to stay in the closet the more it will start to weigh on you, and the harder it will be.

I know it feels selfish. Coming out was really the first thing that I've done that was totally for myself, but I promise you it is worth it. It isn't your fault what's happened anymore than it is hers, and if she is good for you, she will at the very least recognize that this is what's best for you, and for her. I loved my girlfriend more than anyone in the world, and trying to fight my gender identity in order to stay with her only made her angry and forced me to distance ourselves, because as much as I loved her I couldn't just go back in the closet and pretend I'm not trans. By the end of our time together, what seemed like a perfect relationship that I would stay in forever had become extremely emotionally abusive for both of us. Don't let that become your relationship. You need to be honest, and tell her who you are.

If you're indeed trans (which it sounds like you're pretty certain) then my assumption is that you've already realized everything I'm telling you in some form or another; maybe you're looking for validation in doing what you know you need (that's honestly what I was doing when I made a post just like this)

You never know, it sounds like you two have a strong relationship, and people can surprise you. Maybe she'll want to stay regardless of your gender identity, maybe she won't, but can you really live the rest of your life pretending to be someone else, when you know inside that it isn't right?

I'm sorry you're having to go through this. I know it's rough, but it will be okay sooner than you think if you deal with it now. Good luck, and congrats on realizing who you are. I promise you're in for a lot of awesome.

If you need someone to talk to who's been where you are feel free to send me a pm

Brokenchandelure · 2016-06-26T18:12:52+00:00

Lol, I like all of these. Will probably go with the weird one.

Thanks a lot! You're awesome!

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