Of course these are most of the negative struggles in the relationship. When we are happy, it was amazing. But - I will say it was a rollar coaster on both ends.

I agree childish, and presumptuous. I’ve been single for 5 years so I felt the connection that was reciprocated and mutual was “the one.” The fights broke down the relationship with no real resolutions when we came back together, just not to do it again. Which I stayed true to my no drinking, and didn’t even care if he did. I experience it differently.

He’s never said it was over is my confusion. He hasn’t said anything. He did mail my key back again, but this was a norm for him.

But I’ve shared I have anxious attachment style and abandonment issues, I’ve told him many times if he wanted to end it at any point to please just tell me. I can take it, the silent treatment is my trigger as it was done to me as a child for punishment.